Idk what to do anymore…

God…I love my baby. I never knew I could love someone or something as much as I love her. But my god…my boyfriend and I cannot seem to get along for longer than an hour maybe? If even that…idk what’s going on or what’s wrong but there’s always something for us to be arguing about or fighting about and it honestly makes me dislike him for awhile. Right now it’s feeling like we are only good at sex at this point…that’s the only thing we can do right together. We clearly aren’t doing well relationship wise. Or romantically. Or as a unit. Idk. I don’t even really know what I’m asking for by posting this. I’m just at a loss and idk who to talk to about what I’m feeling. Or really know what I’m feeling. And this probably doesn’t make sense and is all jumbled up but I am hiding out in the bathroom typing this hoping to god I don’t cry. I just needed a moment away while he probably fell asleep out there (in our bedroom with our 4 month sleep regression baby). Which honestly just irks me more even though I definitely don’t want to talk to him until tomorrow morning anyway…But it feels like the romance is dead. Our relationship has taken a very dark turn and it’s only getting darker. And the only thing we are doing right together is raising the baby and sex…and it F*CKING hurts…I love him so damn much…I just don’t know wtf to do…how to fix this…fix us…if you got this far thank you for caring enough to at least read my rant ❤️

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It gets better 💕 a baby is always hard on the relationship and idk why people don’t talk about this more

@Kerri definitely is hard and feels like it’s only going to get worse…

Agree with Kerri, a baby makes it hard. There is always a feeling of mom doing more than dad and at the same time dad is trying to navigate the babe. From the time we found out we were pregnant, we started changing our mind and thinking of baby first. We do come with a special bond with the babe. Dad's rarely change their brains until after birth, sometimes after they develop a bond with abbe. And they have to navigate how to do that, it's not a natural thing to them . Try to pinpoint the issues and work on them, one at a time, slowly. While it is way easier to just not talk to him, it's not going to help anything.

Try to go out more as a couple try to romance it up a bit. You both could just be stressed with the baby and stuff

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