Personal curiosity question

How many times a day or week do you have sex with your partners? My partner and I don’t really have sex much I’m just curious as to what the regular should be for some
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Not often enough… I’m always exhausted or working and I was scared after the doctor gave the okay because I didn’t want to get pregnant again yet.

Aim for 1-2 times a week, and strive to make each experience meaningful. Once a month, if you’re feeling particularly adventurous, go all out to create something truly memorable and exciting.

I've turned to smut and a rose at this point we just roommates 😮‍💨

A few times a week

Nothing since May last year when I found out I was pregnant🤦🏼‍♀️

@Yadi bout how I feel honestly lol he don’t touch me no nothing it’s been awhile I just don’t even ask or bring it up anymore

Took my partner 3 months to admit he doesn’t feel like it because of the bump … once a month at the moment :/

Intimacy involves many factors, but taking care of yourself is key, even after starting a family. Prioritize self-care, and your partner will notice. Communicate openly to build emotional connection, and give each other space when you’re tired. Trust me, they care more than you think.

My husband has been gone for 5 days for work and we’ve had sex 3 times in the past 24 hours 🤣 typically have sex everyday, sometimes with a day off lol

Nearly everyday

Like once or twice a week, he’s always in the mood but for me it’s almost impossible to get in the mood if I’m stressed, overtired, etc and that’s more often than not these days pregnant with two young kids 😭😂

My partner just unfortunately does not care for sex he can have it once a year basically we’ve moved into a camper almost five months ago and have only had sex twice our son is 19 months and sleeps away from us and in his own bed and he still doesn’t want sex or anything

Lucky if it happens once a week

After birth, I had the highest sex drive of my life. I blame hormones. For like 4 weeks. It was unreal and unfair (since I had to recover and what not) haha. But since then, I’ve had chronic UTIs. Been on round after round of antibiotics. I’m almost afraid to touch my husband right now in fear of getting a UTI.

3-4x a week

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once a week currently

Once or twice a month maybe

Once a fortnight on average. Sometimes more or less time between. He is always exhausted from work and I don't have a huge drive either. X

Once a year 🤣 xx

@Cheryl we had a lot of sex when we met and then it was pretty regular and then I got pregnant we had so much sex then after it basically died like I only got pregnant cuz I got him testosterone supplements he felt better was not energetic and it boost sperm count and just now we don’t touch at all don’t make out no foreplay no mystery just roommates

Maybe it’s something to do with him. Low testosterone makes people low sex driven. Maybe it’s stress or depression?

My partner has low testosterone, and he said his sex drive has dropped. plus, when stressed at work, he kills his drive even more. Even the flirty touchy feely stops when he's stressed. His job isn't hard, but in his role, stress is expected xx

If he’s dealing with low testosterone tongkat Ali is a great herb that helps raise it and makes him last longer in bed… as well as ginkgo

@Deb it’s kinda just been like this our whole relationship we had a lot of sex in the beginning and then after maybe 3 months it kinda just died he always just says honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever when it comes to me talking about it

Have you tried to spicy things up? Outfits, etc? Our honeymoon period died out quickly, but he used to always be pretty regular. It's just as he's got older he's struggled and his drive has dropped. At first, I thought he just couldn't be bothered, but I've noticed he doesn't play on his console as much as well, so it isn't just affecting our sex life. X

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