Petty or valid.

Are y’all together ?

What’s his reason on denying ?

This is so sad..

You do what you need to in order to have a stress free delivery. Make him pay for that paternity test and dont put his last name on that baby’s birth certificate until paternity has been confirmed. It’s incredibly disrespectful and manipulative for him to be negging you like that so late in the pregnancy. You dont deserve that.

Giving birth is stressful enough you only want people there that are 100 percent supportive of you and your baby! I would also not let him sign the birth certificate if he is denying it and wait until he gets a dna test then he can request the paperwork to get on the birth certificate. You don’t deserve any extra stress during pregnancy. Trust your gut mama! Your feelings are very valid!

Put your last name on that birth certificate!!!!

I don’t know what his reasonings is, but it’s no reason to not trust you and if he wants to deny the baby. Do not let him there and don’t put his last name on the certificate. Not unless you guys can come to an agreement and you make him pay for the paternity test. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this at all

@Shemi not anymore we broke up 2 months ago. I have two other children with someone before him and he has been making stories in his head like I have done something. I WFH and I don’t do or go anywhere.

I don’t want him in there and I feel like I have every right to make sure he’s not there he has denied him twice and I’m tired of trying to prove my self I have had the worst experience this pregnancy and I have had way worse time with my last child but this is heart breaking.

I understand! Do what you gotta do then ! No pressure on you! if you do decide to have him come just set up boundaries if he act funny you’ll have security remove him! But in that moment and time you don’t need no bullshit