I feel so bad now 🥹🥹🥹

Oh babe! If he cheated and you are so sure you are not getting back together, you need to do everything in your power not to kiss him again! i know you will get the feelings n want to but it will only put you in a bad place. If you know you are not getting back together, kissing will only bring the feelings back up for you and make it hard for you for no reason xx

Don't beat yourself up about it. It happens! It's a love hate situation. You do you! But stay strong!

@Kelc I am trying 🥹🥹🥹🥹

It’s only been a few months girl, give yourself some grace and more time. From experience it gets easier I can’t say when or how but it does lol way to go you for not caving in!

@Coco thank you ❤️ sometimes I remind myself he is an asshole and I feel better . But sometimes even that doesn’t help 🥹🥹

Someone who loves you doesn't cheat on you and I understand being confused because he was someone you loved

@Bear idk about that . I never gonna be agree on what he did was ok but . This man is not even rich and I lost my diamond and he just got me another one for 10k and he still pays for that :/ so idk I feel like some people are just sick even if they love I think they still do it don’t u think so? Idk honestly maybe he did love until some point .

I understand where ur coming from but Has he made any effort to fix his wrongs? I agree some people have issues but it means nothing if he's not wanting to change or fix anything my personal opinion is to let him be a father but keep your distance to avoid further pain

Maybe you can forgive him and give him a chance? No one is perfect and no one makes zero mistakes in life

@Adele cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice.

I’m kind of on Adele’s side^^ I think love is a choice we make everyday and unfortunately there are times where people are going to choose themselves. Maybe it’s a conversation you and your husband should have?? Marriage I believe is about forgiving but not necessarily forgetting… so you have to find and balance that line.

Don’t settle, when you are married not only are you making vows and promises to your partner but God as well. Infidelity is a sin, if you can’t honor, love, and stand by your vows you took before a higher power then you don’t deserve a second chance. You deserve to live with the consequences of your actions it’s called accountability. He doesn’t love himself if he did the thought of stepping out of those vows would have never crossed his mind. Hurting you would hurt him and that wasn’t enough to stop him from doing it and he’ll do it again given the chance.