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Divorce , child custody and support

It was a very hard time to start this process , after few months I got pregnant my husband changed alot and didnt see me , didnt sleep with me and I was like a ghost in the house . And his mom , him all problems start after that , I was alone all the time while they were home , I had to do what I have to in the house , cleaning , cooking , even one day before I delivered. I decided to get divorce because there is to much pschological abuse , end of the time pschical abuse Now we are in process for child custody and child support There is only one thing that making me feel sad when my daughter grow up there is no photo that I can show her all family , not even pregnancy time we didnt take photo , he didnt even care , he didnt even put her hand on my belly when she moves I am new in this country and dont have family here , dont have friends. ı am not working because my baby still small and also economic abuse So there is anyone like me that trying to survive and how ? Or any advice ? Can make feel strong ?

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Hi, I’m so sorry you are going through this! You are a brave woman! Your daughter is very blessed to have a role model like you. Even if you might not feel you are strong, you definitely are! I pray that you find a community that will truly love you and show you how amazing you are! Keep your head up and don’t lose hope!

@Rochelle thank youu 🥹

YOU are your daughters family. Take a lot of pictures of you and her during this time and she will cherish them forever. Try not to focus on being sad of her not having photos of her other “family” members…they made choices and didn’t want to be involved. That is their loss. She will see how much you care and love her, and that’s all you have control of at this time. With work, maybe see if you can find another mom you can help out with childcare. You could nanny and watch your daughter and someone else’s baby together, if you’re comfortable with that.

Tahnka you so much , yes why not I can do everything for my daughter , and trying to do my best for her everytime and ıts gonna be forever

At the end of the day u are the only person that matters to her,keep showing her love & affection take a lot of pictures with her. You are her best friend her only real friend. I’m sorry u are dealing with this. Definitely brighter days are ahead do what needs to be done for u & ur child,u don’t want her around all that negativity & abuse u & her deserve better. Divorce & custody battle is hard but u took that step to better ur life mentally & physically not only for u but for ur daughter trauma is something hard to deal with. I wish u the best of luck on everything May God Bless u both 🙏🏽 Happy Holidays

Thank you so much , yes really its so hard this cases but like you said hope the good days are coming for us. I just want to get custody and thats all

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