Let’s talk about sex…

Ladies how is it going for you? I’m 5 months pp and can count on one hand how many times my husband and I have had sex since the baby was born in July. I just don’t have the urge or libido for it. It’s our 3rd baby and right now I’m a stay at home mum. I couldn’t complain about my husband, he supports me with the kids, he’s the most hands on dad I know. For the first 2 months my husband was totally patient no complaints about not having sex (I found other ways to satisfy him 😏) but I feel he misses our old ways and I definitely miss the intimacy too. I just don’t have the urge or desire to have sex… is something wrong with me?! 🥹

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Are you breastfeeding? If so it can totally cause low libido. Tiredness doesn’t help too! We’ve also not been intimate much but we both know it’s just a phase in our lives and once baby is sleeping better (and in her own room) I’m sure it’ll come back! X

Aww nothing is wrong! Three children is not an easy thing. Your body is still healing… take it easy give it some more time and soon hopefully you’ll feel like the old ways again. Sometimes when you have time, freshen up, make the environment sex friendly and see how you feel

What’s sex? I haven’t had any since before baby 😂, I don’t have the urge to be touched so you’re not alone! Xx

I feel like my husband has morphed into this horny teenager since I’ve had the baby. He was so patient while I was pregnant but now I feel like I need to throw a sage bush at him cos he can’t stop touching me 😂😂😂 It’s the last thing I feel like most days. Just no urge and would rather not be touched by anyone. Didn’t know breastfeeding causes low libido so that’s probably a big factor. Have to kinda “go along” with it at times to keep the peace 🫣🫣🫣

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