Dancing for your bf

A bit of a weird one My bf said that he wants me to do a dance for him. He watched a video with someone doing it apparently. He mentioned it being a normal thing for girls to do for their partners in other cultures. I don’t know what he was watching 😂 I think it’s also partly because I’m quite awkward and shy about those sort of things. And he wants me to be able to do more in front of him. I just think that comes with time personally. I don’t like the pressure. But at the same time, I would really like to do things like that . He said not just like the ones on Love Island when they just shake the bum in the guys face😂 but like an actual dance 🤦‍♀️ So my question is, has anyone done that? What sort of thing should I do? I want it to be sexy but cute and a actual dance too

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Lol like a proper choreographed dance while he just sits there? Absolutely not 😂

But if you want to do it maybe watch some YouTube videos and practice in front of the mirror? Maybe have a glass of wine for courage?! 😅

I believe that in Love Island the men also do dances for the women. Maybe he can make you feel more comfortable by going first?! Or maybe he can show you the video he was inspired by? Other than that I would say find music that turns you in and just let go and be yourself, maybe film yourself practicing and see if there are moves that came naturally to you that you could include? BUT importantly, if you don’t want to do it, do not do it! If it’s fun for both of you that’s great! Please don’t be convinced that everyone else is doing it though because I don’t think we all are 👀 It takes a lot of confidence which I suppose either being a dancer and knowing your moves or being super comfortable with the audience. Booty line is- be true to yourself! Just like with anything sensual/sexual - do not feel obligated, and if you do it, make sure you’re having fun!

Girl go for it.Maybe go dancing first with friends and or just him so you can get adjusted and ready.

Lol sounds like he just want you to rythmically shake his ass for him as a sort of foreplay 😂 so unless you are like me and twerk like Tina from bobs burgers, indulge him, see what happens (if you feel comfortable) you can always request smt in return 😜 might be fun

Like a strip tease kind of thing? You can do that YouTube some videos and practice in the bathroom and when your comfortable set the mood dim the lights so you don’t feel so uncomfortable in bright ass lights and get nervous. You can blind fold him to start it off while you build up yourself to start the dance. If you love him and he loves you it’ll be okay don’t think so much about it. It’s not in front of anyone else but him. So whatever happens no one will know about it and you guys can laugh it off. He just wants you to open up a bit more! It’s cute!

At Dominiqe this made me laugh..its literally what I would look like..not very attractive 😍 he he

Does he mean a lap dance?

@Sorrel you made me chuckle x

If you're into it, have him take you to a nice hotel suite for the night. The change of scenery will help you get you out of your head. Also, he'll make a habit of taking you out for nice evenings. The dancing is nice, but when you feel self conscious just remind yourself it doesn't really matter what you do, he's interested in the sex after, haha. 😉

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