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@Sarah lol😂
Once a week if lucky 😁 I don't have a libido at allll
@Sarah lmaoo 🤣🤣 my husbands telling me the average couple has sex 5 times a week?!?!? I’m like no wayyyy
"2-3 a week" or "more" lol try 2-3 a month 😂☹️
You need to add more options!
2-3 times a month! For me 2-3 times a week is madness!! If we do it then I don’t wanna be touched till next week !
Once a year atm 🤣
@Sydney I noticed this very quickly lol but it’s not letting me edit 😭
Make a second one!
Depends how tired we are🤣 3-4 times a week and sometimes we go 2 months without it so we can miss each other
Your husband is deluded 😂 we try for at least once a week, but while I'm currently being used as a human climbing frame I dont particularly want to be touched when my baby goes to bed 😂
3 times a month
@Juli lies 😂😂 my husband keeps complaining and I log every time in the Flo app to prove we are having more often than what he says
2-3 times a year 😂
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Once a month. Maybe.
Every day🫣😂😂
I have a 4 year old who refuses to sleep in her own bed and we live in a tiny home that has one bedroom (which we gave to her and my 1 year old) and a loft. My 4 year old is also very talkative, extroverted and curious. So if she were to catch us having sex, someone in our family would probably hear about it from her or even a random person at the grocery store 😂 When we can we have quickies in the loft before she wakes up, but last time she was walking up the stairs right as we finished. Talk about a close call lol
Less
Lol I meant to click "more" to see if there were other options...defo did not mean to vote more than 5 times a week 😅
We only take a break one week a month while I’m on my period. So about 3-5 times a week. It keeps us sane 🤣🤣
I put ‘more’ thinking it’d give more options because my brains not working 😂 If once a month was an option then I’d have put that 😂
I tapped more thinking it would show me more options 🤣🤣🤣
We're lucky if we get to have it 1-2 times a week although we do try more often when we get the opportunity 😉. It often depends on our schedules and how tired we are as we have 3 SEN kiddos and by the time they're all asleep I'm literally beat and just want some shut eye 😴. Although my husband does have a higher sex drive then me so we have had to find a compromise over the years as he prefers before sleep but I'm more up for it in the morning when I'm well rested 🙅♀️🙈
Try more like months - sometimes I say we will try today. Then I start cleaning the kitchen , putting the laundry away and by the time I’m done I’m tired and I don’t wanna do nothing 😂😂
Yall saying once a month or 2-3 times a year… im not tryna be funny but do yall like yall partner fr?!! I find that CRAZY like huh . Forget the men- do yall not have needs. A libido something!! Me personally I would crash out if me n my hubby only had sex twice a month or twice a year… 😳😳😳
More like once every 2 months atm😭 lack of time/energy and lack of libido got me
This week it was 3 but normally it’s 1 to 2 since we’ve have children prior to having children it was 3 times a week normally
Why isnt 4-1 times a month an option? Lol we work oposite shifts!
@DeJah my husband and i both have past sexual trauma and we work oposite shifts in physically exhausting fields, so were either too tired to move or emotianally not in the right head space to feel safe sexually. We dont have sex often (1-4 times a month, maybe) but its the pace that works best for us. We still have intimacy most every day, its just not always sexual in nature. When we do have sex tho.... 🎆🎇🤤
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@Victoria this makes sense but 1-4 times a month doesnt sound bad. Its the overall only one or two times a year im concerned with cuz thats CRAZY
Sometimes every day, sometimes only once a month
@DeJah eh idk, sex drives are different for all, some i know in happy relationships barely or never have sex at all! Maybe im just friends with a lot of asexuals 😂
Once every 2-3 weeks
I also clicked more thinking there was gonna be more options. I would say 1-2 times a week. I have a 12 week old.
@Charlotte same girl at least once everyday
Ummm. Less lol! Way less. I think i can count on my hands the times in 2024. Pregnancy was rough and now i have a 14 week old and toddler. Ain’t no time for that. Mama is tired.
I’m glad to see I’m not the only one whose libido is taking a break 🤣. I would say 4-5times a month on average.
3-4 times a month. We don't have high sex drives. We could have sex or not have sex. We just want to sleep, honestly
Lessss not more but I’m pregnant and nauseous
Maybe 2-3 times a month lol sometimes less would like 2 do it more but we have a 4 year old who still likes sleeping in our bed and we also have a 9 month old and she’s going through the sleep regression atm 😩 most nights me and my 4 year old Share the bed and my partner sleeps on the sofa bed downstairs x
Less usually, not ideal but work, kids, adulting lead to needing rest as priority.
More !? I’m lucky if it’s once a month 😩
Twice per week at most
A week?!