Loneliness

Yup relate to you my friends all just dating right now which means weekends they just want to be with their partners and they childless so they just want to have fun

I've been friends with two of them since were 5 and under. I thinknim just disappointed that they haven't come through for me.

Yes absolutely. The same. 😭

Having a baby seems to have made people vanish

Friends without kids just don’t understand what a momentous change it is, friends with kids are following their own schedules and putting their LOs first which is only right but doesn’t help actually getting together does it. It’s very different to what I expected, everyone just seems so unreliable but trying to enjoy what’s left of maternity leave even if there are days that’s just the 2 of us. I do try to have something everyday that I can do to if I want to. Free classes at the library or the children’s centre or swimming. If nothing else get out in the fresh air for a walk everyday. It does wonders

I felt this earlier in the maternity leave, but now that the LO is so active and so much more fun, I just love having alone time with her 😅

I have made some lovely friends through this app. Probably best to hang with new moms. Also going to baby classes helps to connect with new moms. Make new friends…doesn’t mean we forget the old ones but always good to have friends who are in the same life stage as us :)