Would you forgive your partner or leave
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@Kara how did you forgive
And they also have to actually regret it
Yes. It can work out if BOTH parties are willing to put the work and effort. Especially, the one who cheated . Gotta be open and transparent about EVERYTHING. Give you the reassurance you need. Answer honestly whatever questions you may want/need to know. & yes, if they’re actually remorseful about what they have done.
It can only work if there is there is true regret, real honesty and openness and a commitment from both parties to put the work in. It takes time though and the person who cheated has to be ready to allow you to work through your feelings without trying to play the victim. It didn’t work for me. The recovery from it was too much of an ask and my ex couldn’t handle how upset I was all the time(1 month).
You can work through it but it takes A LOT. And I’ve learnt the hard way that some people never change, they just get a lot better at hiding it xx
Yes, you can work through it if you really want it to work BUT you do have to grow and forgive each other.