Everyone disappears

I shared with a few close friends that my marriage is on the brink of divorce, like I believe that paperwork will be filed early in the new year. And I can't believe how quickly people go quiet, like barely any communication anymore and they disappear. If I had a friend tell me that I'd be there for them more than ever and checking on them. What the fuck? I'm already very alone because my husband hates me and no one is there for support. I know ultimately my mother would be but I haven't been able to talk to her about it, I just can't admit it to her yet. But why do people disappear??
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Most people only care about themselves and their own personal problems. Until they’re put in the same situation they’ll never understand. Also, maybe it’s a blessing in disguise because going through something like this is going to show you people’s true colors. I’m sorry you feel so alone during this time. Especially you saying it’s your close friends. They should be the ones you can lean on during this difficult time.

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ thank you so much! I'm so grateful for the women on this app. 4 years ago I told my best friend that my husband had hit me and all the struggle I was going through, she listened and was supportive for the 2 hour phone call but then she never checked up on me, it broke my heart. Months later she told me her father had gone through a cancer scare and I messaged her often to check on her. She never asked how I was doing in my marriage again. Over the past few years we grew more distant and now we don't talk at all. I don't consider her a friend on any capacity anymore.

You can always message me if you need someone to listen to or advice 🩷

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ that means more than I could ever write back and thank you

You’re never alone!! You can message me at any point. I really do understand you though. When you go through something that completely breaks you in half as a person and you reach out and then their gone it proves that they aren’t forever friends and it’s not easy to go through really life changing heart breaking things by yourself but at least 1 or 2 more fake friends can’t come and break your heart again

I realized this too. Especially w health issues. I started pulling back from ppl and doing some self care. Also, focusing on my friends. I found out that I am no one's number one priority so I havr to make myself my own #1. Lots of positive vibes for 2025. You can also PM me.

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