I understand how it is! I'm not sure where you are but Leicestershire has an 'active_mums_club' on Instagram and they arrange 'buggy walks' so the babies are a bit calmer as you are all walking 🤣 maybe you could search if there is something similar near you?
Here if you want to message me! Feel very much the same🤍
I get how you’re feeling I’m similar. my mum is amazing, but my friends are all busy in their own life’s and don’t have children yet so finding time that suits mostly day times is hard. I also have a soon to be 2 year old so baby groups are hard to attend as some won’t allow both as it’s all babies. I currently have no mum friends and even after being on here have not really met anyone who seems to want to meet. We are in Benfleet, Essex if your local we could meet for coffee or play date x
Could your mum come with you to a baby group, help entertain baby while you talk to some mums? I'm sorry you're struggling so much