Have often do you and your partner have sex
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I choose 1-3 times a month bc that’s how much I will consent… he would have sex like every day if I were up for it. Men are normally the ones who want it more than women and will want it no matter how much they work or how tired they are… it’s like something they need. How long have y’all been together, did you just have a baby or have things going on in your relationship? Are you married?
Use to be every other day until my third trimester of pregnancy started and now it’s 1-2 times a week at most. I’m too uncomfortable to care for it which sucks because I usually do have a high sex drive. Having baby tomorrow so it’s gonna be a long 6 weeks
@Amanda Brown I thought that too. We have been together for nearly 3 years and our baby is 5 months old. It's always been like this. Once I had the baby he couldn't get enough of me, he was so passionate and horny and really wanted me, he put a lot of effort in. But that's dropped off again now unfortunately. We haven't had sex at all this month. For me it's not just about the sex but the passion, closeness etc. Although I do have a high sex drive and it's always me trying to get him in the mood. He doesn't seem interested at all and it's getting me down. I've already spoken to him so many times about it and he keeps saying he doesn't know why and that he's exhausted from work etc. He did use to have a porn addiction years ago before he met me. He has swore he doesn't have it anymore and he's let me check his phone too. Also we have a block on our Internet for that stuff and he has it blocked on his mobile data too. So I don't know what it could be tbh
Also my partner has a much lower sex drive than me, not all men have high drives x
@Shannon it's nice to hear that. My partners sex drive is much lower than mine also x
With everything you just said, I don’t think it’s anything to worry about!! He may really just be exhausted. I have no drive at all and I just had a baby too. My husband has been the one not understanding for 3 years why I’m never I the mood and I can tell you, its not him it’s me and I still love him, there is nothing wrong. ♥️
@Amanda Brown aw thank you, I really hope there isn't anything wrong. Sometimes I just feel like he isn't sexyally attracted to me
I like to have it as often as possible but sometimes my husband is too tired from work or doesn't feel good. We probably manage to have it 3-4 times a month on average but I'd prefer more lol
Where do y’all get the energy to do all of that lol :,) if my husband comes near me I’m like… don’t even think about it
Like every other night , we both have a high sex drive so I just works well for us fortunately
He would like every day or every other day. With both working and 3 young kids we try 2x a week. Last year our goal was once a week and we beat it. We’re going to increase our goal this year. He could have low testosterone, which causes some men to have a lower libido.
We both have low sex drive so a few times a month
My husband wants it every day but I don't, so we have it 1 or 2x a week 🤣 my Hubby worked a lot too and had around 5h of sleep every night 🤷♀️😁
At least once a day. Sometimes twice.
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We both don’t really care for it as much as we did before I think we are both to tired by the time we are alone. I would say maybe 2-3 times a month. We should our love in other ways to make up for it 😊 I would say it could be true that he is just tired
At the moment twice a month, if we're lucky. Since having my second child, I have little interest (not sure if it's to do with breastfeeding) and I'm finding it quite painful so it's much less than normal.
We both have low labido so… a couple of times a year 😂
Varies. 1-2 a week sometimes then others it could be 2-3 a month!!