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How long did it take to get pregnant again?

I have recently miscarried, and it took us 9 months to conceive in the first place. My husband and I are ready to start trying again but I’m really worried that it’s not going to happen straight away. How long did it take people to conceive? Feeling very overwhelmed and stressed about the whole situation.

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Is anyone trying after an ectopic

Is anyone trying to get pregnant after an ectopic? no one understands how stressful it is, most women are just worried about miscarriage, but after an ectopic, I can’t even explain the anxiety 😵‍💫. All this just to get a baby (it’s a lot to deal with).

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Miscarriage/chemical pregnancy

Can anyone who has experienced one prior to 5 weeks explain how it presented. I’m getting brown spotting. Would a miscarriage develop with more blood or not if it’s so early?

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Question

I miscarried my baby a few weeks ago Im thinking about possibly trying again in the near future but im worried what my next pregnancy might look like and what help i would get from medical professionals What kind of help should i expect going forward? Will i be offered any medication? Is there any medication that ...

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Anyone else pregnant after loss?

Congratulations to everyone here ❤️ I’m 4 weeks today (found out at 7dpo!) and struggling a bit with anxiety after a missed miscarriage last time I was pregnant. Is anyone else going through a similar thing (pregnancy after loss), or has any words of advice? X

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Miscarriage / chemical

How long did you all start bleeding after your miscarriage? I’ve had positive pregnancy tests and now and negative, pregnancy symptoms all going but no bleeding or pain yet. When did this start for you? I don’t know what to expect….

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Looking for advice

Hi everyone, I’m just wondering if it is possible to miscarry without bleeding. I have had no blood but getting cramping/pains in my stomach. I read online that it can be sign of a chemical but have never experienced this before

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Mourning the loss of my 9 week old baby

So, yesterday while a relaxing day at the beach went to the toilet to pee and I noticed light spotting. At night time increased to droplets of blood while peeing. Light cramping, light lower back pain. Went to the doctor this morning, did some blood tests, everything look ok. Ultrasound at 4pm, there was no heartbea...

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Recent surgery from ectopic pregnancy

Just had ectopic pregnancy surgery to remove my left fallapion tube. Anyone story of a rainbow baby after please? Looking for positive and something to look forward to during this difficult time x

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Experiencing my first miscarriage

I feel so guilty. I’m only 5 weeks but I’m distraught by the fact I know i was stressed and not doing okay. And maybe if I was just a little happier. My baby wouldn’t have chosen to leave my body. I was so happy checking the entire week for the positives to soon find out my baby isn’t growing. I started bleeding yes...

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How much blood did you lose?

I was told I lost a reasonable amount but not enough for a transfusion. I was so pale afterwards and looked dishevelled. I seem to recall they said I lost 1226ml which seemed a lot...I'm only 5ft 1 I've since read that it's typical to lose up to 500ml for a vaginal birth and 1000ml for a csection. What was your bl...

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Ttc after miscarriage

Now on my 7th cycle since😫 How long did it take for people to fall pregnant after miscarriage if trying for more then 6 months?😔

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Miscarriage options

Hello ladies, need advice or past experience from those that have gone through a miscarriage. I was given three options aside from letting it happen naturally- pill, vacuum or D&C. Had a few ultrasound and my blood was monitored until I was told my HCG levels were dropping and nothing was seen on ultrasound. Appea...

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Miscarriage, D&C?

It has been confirmed that my baby’s heart has stopped and he has stopped growing. Now I need to make a decision on how I want him to pass naturally, medicated or d&c. Can I ask people’s opinions on d&c’s? I am a really heavy bleeder with just a normal period so I’m thinking the d&c would help with that a bit and...

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How do you mentally recover after a miscarriage?

I had a missed miscarriage recently and had to have an D+E. So far this is my 4th miscarriage and thankfully I have a 2yo too. I had 2 miscarriages 8 years before having my daughter and I honestly thought they were behind me, but now with two more I’m loosing hope. I’m also under the care of a fertility clinic so th...

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How long did it take you to get pregnant after a miscarriage with PCOS?

Hi Ladies, I believe I’m currently going through a miscarriage. I am overwhelmed with so much hurt and fear at the same time. This pregnancy was not planned however, we were very much excited as it would have been our second and first since getting married. The initial thought was to get pregnant end of the year/be...

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VVVVFL after miscarriage in April

So..yesterday I did a test and thought I could see a shadow, I’ve just done another and there is definitely a line I’m not sure how good people can see it.. I’m absolutely terrified as we had a miscarriage start of April and this was only our second cycle trying I’m supposed to start periods on Tuesday I think.. h...

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Miscarriage

I was 5w3Days and I lost the baby yesterday 😣 I’ve been so emotional I’m just hurt I say I want to try again right after but now I’m worried about the outcome. My 1 year old laid on my tummy today and made crying noises 🥺

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So in just 2 days I’ve been told that I had an ectopic pregnancy

I was also told the tube was leaking and they found blood in my scan. I then had a keyhole surgery the next day, had the tube removed and lost the baby. It all feels a lot in a short space of time. I don’t know how or what to feel. I was scared of dying and not coming home to my 2 year old. I’m grieving for my secon...

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How long?

How long after a miscarriage can you/did you wait to try again? I’m so devastated by this loss I was so excited for my daughter to have a sibling I want to try and give her one asap

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