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Is miscarriage sick leave pregnancy related?

I had a miscarriage recently requiring surgery and had a couple of weeks off work. I was due to return but I am really struggling mentally with the loss and so my gp has certified me with a few more weeks for ‘mental health due to miscarriage’. My manager has put it as ‘stress/mental health’ leave, but I was under t...

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Sex after..

Tigger warning. I had a miscarriage last week Doctor told me Im wait after three weeks as long as I produce a negative pregnancy test and then we would be free to ttc again. We are usually sexually active daily or most days. my question is how long did you wait? how was it? Any thing to expect? pain etc? ...

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I would been 4 weeks pregnant

Today but sadly I have miscarriage only if you can stay alittle longer 😭

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Hcg

I passed a large clot on Tuesday. I’ve tested to see if my hcg is dropping but it doesn’t seem to be, could this mean that I’m not having a miscarriage? I have an ultrasound apppintment next Tuesday. Im just feeling very anxious 😞

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2ww

How does everyone cope with the 2ww following a loss? Is it worse ? Just ovulated so it feels like the next 2 weeks are going to be more brutal than before. Anyone else?

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Stalled Miscarriage?

I’m curious if anyone has gone through what I’m going through now. I have been actively bleeding since the 20th like a period. A couple days before that started my OB said she believed this would be another miscarriage as I was measuring behind and the sac looked abnormal. No heartbeat. I went in yesterday to confi...

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2 weeks post D&C now TTC

Hello ladies, Really hoping I can get some advice. I sadly had a miscarriage and had to have a D&C 2 weeks ago. My husband and I are now desperate to try again and from what I have been told and read, we can start TTC again. I have not had a regular period since (I have just been spotting and besides 1-2 days of f...

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

Hi I had a miscarriage on the 23 April this year I’ve then had my period and found out today I’m pregnant I don’t know how to feel or what to do. Any advice for pregnancy after a miscarriage? Tyia

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Feeling lost

Hi! I am currently on month 11 of trying to conceive after miscarriage and I starting to lose hope. I am 35 years old which puts me in the “geriatric” pregnancy category. I had a successful pregnancy almost 3 years ago now with my son after 2 months of trying. I am starting to resent my body and really starting to l...

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Large clot

I passed a large clot and some blood yesterday, I’m supposed to be 6 weeks today. Am I supposed to be bleeding if it’s a miscarriage??

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Failed embryo transfer

Yesterday I got some bleeding that initially I was hoping to be the implantation, but it proved to be my period :-( I did a pregnancy test this morning and it was negative I was so hopeful that I would be pregnant as my smell was developed and I felt nauseous, but apparently I was wrong and now I am super sad and ca...

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Telling my gf I’m pregnant after she miscarried 💔

So I’m in my early weeks of pregnancy, this will be my second baby and it is a planned pregnancy. However, I fell a lot quicker than I expected and I’m so so lucky and extremely grateful (have auto immune disease) One of my best friends recently had a miscarriage after 18 months of trying for baby #2. I feel so aw...

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Question

How soon after miscarrying did you conceive? I recently miscarried at 16 weeks 6 days due to having pProm

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Period after misscarriage

Just got my period after my miscarriage did everyone bleed heavier?

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EPU

Got an appointment at the EPU tomorrow afternoon after bleeding for nearly 2 days and lower back pain yesterday. Was trying to remain positive but unfortunately had a clot pass just now so I don’t think this time is going to work out. I had 3 miscarriages before having my daughter in January of this year. This pregn...

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Pregnant after a miscarriage

Im struggling with really bad anxiety. I’m constantly thinking something bad is going to happen! I never felt this way with my first pregnancy but after falling pregnant again then having a miscarriage I now feel constantly worried about this current pregnancy I am 12 weeks. Please can any mums that how gone throug...

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What do I need to do?

So 3 weeks ago i had positive tests, then a week later tests were coming back negative, now I’ve started bleeding, have I had a miscarriage? And what do I need to do?

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How did you know you were done?

So I have a son, I’ve had two miscarriages, and now almost 22 weeks with another boy. Originally I was soooo set on being done after this because the anxiety of losing another baby is too hard. But as the weeks go by I’m wondering if I should try for another girl (we lost our daughter at 17weeks 11.11.23). I know th...

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Miscarriage vs abortion

I didn't know what group to post this into but I had a conversation earlier today with a girl who said abortions are the same thing as a miscarriage because scientists can't prove what causes a miscarriage and that got on my nerves because an abortion is a choice where as a miscarriage is 100% not avoidable and is v...

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6 weeks and bleeding

I woke up this morning bleeding like a period, I’ve been to hospital and they’re giving me a scan tomorrow. I’m really hoping it isn’t a miscarriage.. has anybody else had bleeding and baby has been ok? Trying to stay positive🥲

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