Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Pregnancy Loss.

Difficulty conceiving after miscarriage last year

I had a missed miscarriage beginning of last year which was horrific and I almost died from excessive blood loss. Anyway I didn't start trying again till end of last year and have been trying for the last few months. Before the miscarriage I was getting pregnant without even trying but now we are trying and regularl...

Incognito
4

No contractions or severe pain

I was diagnosed with an inevitable miscarriage last week - baby measuring 5 weeks and I should have been nearly 9 weeks plus very slow heartbeat. The miscarriage happened naturally this morning over 3-4 hours of heavy bleeding, tissue passing and some clots. I was quite overwhelmed by the amount. I didn’t get any co...

Incognito
6

Still stressed over 2-3

Hello, My double line and + tests are definitely getting darker but my weeks still haven’t moved. I should be 5+3 today and I still haven’t got my 3+ weeks. Should I be concerned? I’ve had no symptoms of miscarrying but I have previously had a missed miscarriage before but it says it’s unlikely to happen a second t...

E
13

Scared of another loss

Hi! Just wondering if anyone is in the same situation as me? I’m 6 weeks pregnant will be 7 weeks on Thursday and have very minimal symptoms. I’ve had some spotting so I’m on progesterone now but I just can’t shake the feeling that something is wrong again. I’m trying to stay positive but I’m really worried about ha...

Incognito
2
29

Trying to conceive after miscarriage

Hi everyone, Just wondering how long you left it after your loss to start TTC again? I feel like I want to start asap because of my age and I already feel like I’ve been robbed of time but also I don’t want to rush my body as I have a fear I might miscarry again. Thanks x

Incognito
1
4

Trying again after MMC

I had my first miscarriage at the end of February. I am thinking of trying again this cycle. I'm currently on iron tablets due to the heavy bleeding I had and also started taking sertaline for other reasons. When did you know it was the right time to start again? I feel petrified. Don't know if I should even cont...

Incognito
4

Help!

I’m still so confused on my conception date! Im due first week of May, I had a miscarriage June 22, period July 26, had unprotected sex twice in August. Once early and once the 25. Did it again sept 13 and had a super duper bright positive that didn’t even take the 3-5 minutes on September 19. Hcg levels were 164,00...

Incognito
4

Hematoma

Hi! 8 weeks along and had a private scan yesterday for reassurance after recurrent miscarriages which mainly went well however I have a subchorionic hematoma next to the pregnancy sac (upper right dark shadow in pic) which has worried me. Has anyone had this and been okay? I will call my midwife Monday to let her k...

K
11

Dream

I had a dream last night that I was pregnant and saw the baby on the ultrasound at 8 weeks. I have had 6 miscarriages and just had my last one almost 3 weeks ago. Has anyone had an experience like this 🤔 and the dream actually happened irl??

O
4

Struggling with faith after miscarriages

I’ve never been super religious but these past couple years I’ve been diving into it more and going to church, praying,reading the bible. until my miscarriages, now I’m struggling to have faith and feeling angry and skeptical. Anyone else go through this?

Incognito
2
4

Work and miscarriage

I had a "missed miscarriage" Did everyone still work while miscarrying? I haven't started bleeding yet. Just very very slight cramping. Don't plan on doing the pills till next weekend if my body doesn't start it by itself. I only have 21.33 hrs of PTO.

Incognito
11

TW miscarriage

How long does it usually take to start seeing blood if your having a miscarriage? I am 7 weeks and all my pregnancy suddenly just stopped . I am having cramps here and there but no bleeding . Excessive runny nose and an insane migraine but no other symptoms . When can I expect it to bleed or cramps get worse? Also...

Incognito
18

Just had my fourth miscarriage. Feeling confused

I don’t really know what the point of this post is but I’ve just found out I’m having a fourth miscarriage. I should be 9+4 but baby stopped growing at 6+3.. my last MMc was 8 weeks, the one before that was a chemical and the one before that was another MMC that I found out at 9 weeks the Fetal pole never progresse...

Incognito
5

Trying this month (Christmas baby)

I’m desperate to try again after my miscarriage last month but haven’t wanted to try this month because the due date would be so close to Christmas. Am I being picky and should just feel lucky regardless of when I get pregnant?! It’s just that I have a 2 year old as well and don’t want to miss out on a special Chris...

Incognito
10

Pregnant after a Etopic pregnancy

Those of you who’ve experienced an ectopic pregnancy and may have lost a tube, but later got pregnant again. Once you found out you were pregnant, what were the first steps you took? How soon did you contact your doctor, and what kind of testing or scans did they do early on to make sure everything was progressing ...

C
2
9

Reason you think you miscarried

Hi I just found out I miscarried on my second child at 11 weeks, I was told it had no heartbeat and I’m just wondering what went wrong. Has anyone else thought like this? I was very stressed during the time of my pregnancy I tried not to be but because of personal and work reasons I was, i got a really bad cough/co...

Incognito
8

Natural miscarriage

I’ve had a natural miscarriage on Sunday went to EPU on Monday who confirmed it was complete but I’m still in a lot of pain and heavy bleeding. I’ve got shooting pains through my bottom and it’s unbearably painful going to the toilet for No2. Has anyone else experienced this after natural miscarriage? How long did i...

Incognito
4

How far along?

Had a miscarriage and started bleeding 2/2-2/9. Haven’t had a period and normally have VERY irregular periods, but just got another positive test on 3/29. I have a dr appt next week but I’m just anxious. Any idea when I could have possibly ovulated or how far along I might be?? Test on 3/29 was very faint and hasn’t...

Incognito
3

Pregnancy after miscarriage

Hi ladies, hoping anyone can help me I miscarried my last pregnancy and was bleeding from 28/02 til 12/03. I have just found out this morning that I am pregnant again, having no period between my miscarriage and this pregnancy. Can anyone tell me how the midwives/doctors calculate how far along I am am. Will it be...

Incognito
6

Miscarriage 7 weeks 5 days

Started spotting earlier in the week, had a private scan, should have been 9 weeks but told baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks 5 days. I’ve been bleeding and cramping, cramping that is painful for 3 days now. How long is this likely to go on for? I’m just desperate for it to be over

Incognito
5

From the Blog

Related articles
All
More