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Just need to vent and cry!

I am just so miserable and feel like I can’t make it the rest of the way. I am 38 weeks and 4 days so I know I’m close. But I have only been getting like 3-4 hours of sleep because even laying down my back is in so much pain. I cramp all day and night! I have reflux. Then because I’m not sleeping I’m beyond tired so...

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don’t know what to do.

I just found out i’m pregnant again, i have a 7 month old and it’s just me and him while my partner works- he’s a chef and works 9am-12am most days- i can just able handle everything with my son and dealing with housework. I’m stressed knowing i’m pregnant again and don’t know what to do. I’d be struggling to juggle...

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How are we all coping with ‘terrible 2s’

My 22 month old is definitely going through it atm. Now I know it’s normal, he isn’t being naughty on purpose, he’s testing limits, he’s dealing with big feelings etc but I am not handling it well. It’s just me and my boy, no support no family. I really need some tips or advice on how to deal with kick offs over ‘si...

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Hating car ride

My son is 7 months old and hates car drive unless I sit in the back. He cried all the way to Asda the other day no where for me to stop and comfort him. Please help, even when my husband sits at the back he hates it. I usually only take him out to run errands when he is milk drunk. I am starting work soon and wou...

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Feel like a loser..

Not sure why I’m writing this post other than maybe for others to relate. I’m a mum of 2. Youngest is 3 and eldest a teenager.. I decided to give up work last sept to be at home with him. Some days are great and we do lots but other days are hard and longgggg. I have no career (I’m 37) and honestly have no idea ...

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Mam guilt

It's my 30th birthday Soon and all I wanted was a day out with hubby with out our little one as we haven't spent time alone since he was born hes booked us away for the weekend with our little one and whilst I'm excited to go I feel like I won't enjoy myself as much as I'll constantly still be mam instead of me. Don...

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Tantrums only for me during nappy change

Help I’m going out of my fucking mind as I can’t do a single nappy change without the most insane tantrum ever and it takes at least 30 mins. My partner has never witnessed this as he’s at work and when he changes him he lies still and calm for some reason. I’ve googled and already trying everything I saw there but ...

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HELP!!

My daughter’s behaviour is getting out of control. I don’t even feel like I’m being dramatic here. I’m at a loss of what to do. She doesn’t respect anything I say. She’ll laugh in my face if she’s told off. She’s resulted to hitting/smacking me now if she gets told off. For example, she’ll take her little sister’s ...

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Marriage sucks

The marriage I’m in is the exact reason why I never wanted to get married I never wanted to feel trapped in a loveless relationship I just wish it could go back to how it used to be to be I know marriage is hard but I also know that my husband is not in love with me he may love me but he is not in love with me he wo...

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Husband taking care of the baby

Anyone gets annoyed to their husband for not knowing how to settle the baby or can’t make the baby fall asleep? I get so frustrated when my husband is watching our son for few minutes and when he cries or get cranky I end up rushing what I was doing just to get the baby back because my husband doesn’t try different...

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Grandparent not respecting boundaries

I’m 20 and me and my husband live with my mother who helps us TREMENDOUSLY but.. I’ve asked her not to bring her “spouse” around my daughter because she’s constantly breaking up with them and they have disrespected my husband and I over the course of 3 years; for example saying things like “I fell bad for ______ tha...

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Men suck.

Ladies. You cannot trust men. Even the “good” ones wear a mask. My husband told me about some of the conversations the married/serious relationship guys have with each other. He revealed to me that they mostly talk about women that they meet or sleep with. Just completely disrespecting their partners without any reg...

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A Tough Day at Daycare – Hoping It Gets Better

Today was such a tough day. We’re in the transition period and have a whole month to make it as smooth as possible, but after today, I’m feeling so anxious. My little one cried on and off the whole time, barely ate anything, completely refused his bottle, and only slept for 34 minutes. Last week, we started with ju...

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Helppp

Y’all I think my bf/bd is cheating on me He never takes any calls in the same room as me and today I was going on his snapchat and seen him talking to dis girl. We agreed you know to not add ppl on snap and only the ppl we had on it turns out he added her march 11 and on my son birthday he was otp with her and shi ...

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Child support ..

So my husband is being asked to pay more for child support . Ok fine whatever . But it’s evident that bm doesn’t use that money on their kid . Ok whatever right . But then I hate how he then supplies things for their daughter there and here . Not my money so I don’t care . My annoyance is that he’ll give give give t...

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How do I navigate this

My husband has grown up in an enmeshed family dynamic. This has caused tension in our marriage. For the last 5 years, We've dealt with my in-laws overstepping boundaries, berating and manipulating my husband when he's tried to successfully set boundaries, wanting to know every decision we are making, including decis...

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Partner and I have different opinions about people visiting after birth, help 😓

My partner wants nobody else involved for the first two weeks after our daughter being born. He wants time just us to bond and said that he feels like I'm going to take that away from him and that it won't be a special time if anyone else is involved. On the other hand, I really want the support of my Mum. She's goi...

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In a relationship but still a single parent

I’m in a relationship and my baby’s daddy is so good with him but sometimes it feels like I’m on my own, I look after my 3m baby boy all day which I love, but like everyone knows it’s not just looking after him is it. It cleaning the house, doing bottle, washing up, laundry I feel like I never get my own time anymor...

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First Mother’s Day Drama

I spent my first Mothers Day with my 11 month old and Husband. All week leading up to Mother’s Day I worked 40+ hours…I then saw my mum after work Friday and again Saturday. I rang her first thing Mother’s Day and tried arranging a time for her to come and collect her flowers and card as she was driving this way to...

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Do you sometimes feel guilty about separating you husband? Only because you see him stressed?

My husband and I have been married 9 years, however i decided to separate because his has a bad temper, a complainer. No patience AT ALL, so he will do things that I never felt good about it, he always made me feel unheard, and at times I fear him, he would constantly erase his voice even to me. So other things tha...

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