Community Posts, Tips & Support on Baby Sleep

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Baby Sleep.

Refusing to sleep anywhere but on me!?

Feels like we’re back to the newborn stage! My 18 week old won’t sleep anywhere but on me! Not in the next to me, not in the bed beside me, only ON ME! I’m shattered, I feel like we’ve been dealing with terrible sleep for weeks now 😭

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Sleep shifts

My partner and I do sleep shifts with baby, I get 10-4 and he does 4-10 which works really well for us at the moment with her being 3 weeks but want to start looking at how I can start moving so we’re all sleeping together but I just find it really hard trying to sleep when she grunts and cries in her sleep as it al...

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Co sleeping

Bit of advice pls! So my little girl was really good at settling in her Moses basket/next to me but when she turned about 6 weeks she just wouldn’t settle and would wake everytime I put her down so I let her sleep with me so I could get some sleep too, she’s just turned 8 weeks and I want to be able to introduce he...

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Baby too far gone!

Been trying putting baby to sleep tired but awake in his bedside bassinet and nope. Don’t work. He’s been crying for hours. I don’t think this is for us. My baby is too used to co sleeping.

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Would you risk it all??

Your phone battery is 5%, you've left your charger in the bedroom with a sleeping toddler, what are you going to do? I choose peace....... Phone can wait

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What is happening?!

Losing my mind trying to figure out what’s going on. Baby has suddenly started waking at 5am. He’d also started fighting naps etc so switched to one nap a few days ago but he’s still waking at 5! He also seems to desperately want his morning bottle as soon as he wakes up so is he waking early because he’s hungry?? H...

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I don't get it

Can anyone make this make sense or tell me why. I'm a SAHM and breastfeeding our ten month old who hates bottles but will take one occasionally...so getting up with her falls to me. (Note he'd definitely get up with her if I asked but he drives a semi and I don't want him wrecking). She wakes most nights crying ju...

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Pillows

When can a baby have a pillow? My daughter’s 14 months and every time she lays down she tries to lay herself to where she’s elevated. Shes also obsessed with playing with them. She still sleeps in her crib right next to me and my fiancé but I’m scared she’ll hurt herself

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Feeding at night

How to reduce night feeds? I think it just become habit now now hungry

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Confessions of an anxious momma

Omg. Sometimes I can barely stand the noises my infant makes at night. Is she awake, is she asleep, does she need me, is this normal, did I burp her enough. It's never ending. Anyone else?

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Baby girls sleeping

Does anyone else’s baby wake up with really cold arms and hands?😔 she sleeps in a vest, sleep suit and 2.5 tog sleep bag and our room is always between 16-20 degrees. But she keeps waking up with cold hands and arms and it makes me so sad☹️ what can I do to stop this? Obviously the sleep bags are armless🤷🏻‍♀️

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Baby wakes at 5am

Baby consistently wakes up at 5AM. Even if we move final feed time he still gets up at 5AM. Any tips on changing his internal body clock to push it to 6AM?

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Can’t sleep!

Anyone else just can’t sleep, I’m 37+4 and keep waking up around 4am every night and just lie there for hours. Getting fed up of it now!!

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Inconsistent sleep

She will be 1 in 2 weeks. Some nights wakes once and straight back to sleep after a bottle other nights 3-4 wakes and takes ages to go back down or wakes 2hrs later after bottle. She has 30 mins in the morn then 2hrs lunchtime nap and 4hr wake window before bed around 7

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Sleeping at night query

I just wanted to post and ask if anyone has had their babies fall asleep for long stretches at 12 weeks or not. Over the past few days my LO has been sleeping between 8.5 to 9.5 hours straight before waking up on their own to be changed and fed. Then once they're back down to sleep, they will sleep for a few hours,...

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Help

My baby girl is 11 weeks old and since turning 11 weeks she’s stopped sleeping through the night, goes down at half 10/11 used to sleep till 6 at least. Last few nights she wakes at 3/4 and wants feeding but has stopped going back down to sleep. Has anyone else experienced this? She’s found her hands and tries to se...

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15 month regression

How long does this delightful waking up 100000 times a night lasted for you all? The only thing that puts him back to sleep is a bottle and I’m worried he’s going to start getting used to night feeding again

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What am I doing wrong??

Hi guys! For the past week or so my daughter has been falling asleep for the night around 6:30-7pm. She’s been consistently waking around 12am then again at 3-5am but during this time she is WIDE AWAKE ready for her day. As you can imagine, I am NOT. I’m just exhausted and would rather be in the newborn trenches ag...

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Baby self-soothing

I have been rocking my 8 week old baby to sleep for daytime naps. Everything I read says to put baby down drowsy but if I do that in the daytime he is wide awake immediately, and often upset. Am I missing something? Any suggestions on how to do this better? I’m worried he’ll get use to being rocked to sleep, but...

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Whose 6 month old is still in the ‘4 month regression’?

My baby’s sleep is getting progressively worse, she now wakes every 1 hour and a half to feed, sometimes even every 1 hour, and it’s killing me. I’m scared to go down the sleep training route as I’ve heard bad things, but I’m on my knees. I don’t understand because some nights she will sleep 4 hour chunks, but ther...

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