Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Mental Health.

In my feelings.

I’m feeling pretty sad today. I worked really hard in a medical assistant school. Got a job that I loved but I had to quit because my kid was always getting sick and childcare was hard to find. I had planned on going back to work but I got pregnant and now I’m back where I started in the first place that motivated m...

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Feeling alone

I love my Kiddos so much but damn I’m feeling so alone. All I really have is kid interactions all day, I’m missing adult interactions so much 😩 I’m a stay at home mom and I barely ever get a break, actually I never do & it’s hard then I feel guilty for wanting time alone. My husband is gone with work a lot and when…

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Juggling it all

How are you all getting on, do you feel ok top of things?! I am knackered all the time and kids always come first so find I don't have enough time for myself or tidying the house etc . Or I do it all as best I can and am then absolutely shattered for days!!

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How to make new friends??

I would love advice and feel stuck. I’m a first time stay at home mom, and wanting more friends. Most or all of my main friends are out of state since I moved for college. Now that I am not working, or in school, and have a brand new baby it’s hard finding time to meet friends. I also feel stuck due to being on one ...

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Mom friends

anyone else looking for mom friends but suck at responding? lol Since ive had my baby later at my age i feel like the only one with a baby doing the "new mom" thing. It feels lonely at times, but then I come on here from time to time and barely respond cause the time isnt really there 🤦🏻‍♀️ Anyone else do this?…

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Struggling

How the heck is any single mother coping doing it alone. I have a 4 month old and have been doing it all myself except a super rushed 20 minutes to shower and get changed. I’m just at the end of my rope. My baby is so much work and I’m struggling to cope with her and the pain and fatigue on top. I have no one to hel...

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Lonely

Is it normal to feel lonely and a bit anxious after you have a baby

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Feel lonely

I am so lonely. My daughter is 4 months old now and hubby works long hours. I walk to town and the park daily. Not many friends or family are available and I feel so alone. I go to the gym in the mornings for 1 hour and rush back home to bf my daughter then I feel stuck. She doesn’t always let me leave her or put h...

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Loneliness

Hi everyone , I have a toddler , I don’t have any friends I feel so alone my family live in another country . My realtionship has broken down as of recently even when I was in one I was still feeling so lonley when I’ve had the baby it changed everyrhing . Everyday is the same . My child is going through tantrums c...

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Had a bad day… mental health check!

💞

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Free time

As a parent look two, will we ever get free time again? I co asleep so go to bed when they go to bed and I wake up when you wake up. So currently I have zero time to myself. Not even 30 minutes a day. Will I only get free time once their teenagers and are off to their friend's houses? Because I'm not about to have s...

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Already feeling like I’m not me..

Did anyone feel like the moment the became pregnant their individuality was stripped away. I’m grateful for the love and support my family and friends are showing me but I’m bubble wrapped so tightly I feel I can’t breathe. Everything now is about being a mum and preparing for baby. I just want to feel human but I f...

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FORGOTTEN FOREST!

In the heart of a forgotten forest, there stands a mystical tree that bears fruit of unimaginable beauty Legends say that those who taste its fruit gain insight into their deepest desires and fears. However, each bite slowly roots them to the spot, binding them to the tree for eternity. Would you risk indulgi...

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PPD

Just had my baby girl 2 weeks ago and feeling kind of depressed and alone. Anyone in phx or az period wants to hang? Be friends ??

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Feeling alone

I've noticed the further along in pregnancy I've gotten the less my friends have bothered to check in on me. My husband tells me almost every day that one/some of his friends or work colleagues have asked about me/us which is lovely but I can't help but think well where are my friends at!? Most of my friends do have...

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Do you suffer with any of the following

1.Addiction to bad habits 🍔🚬📺📳🍸☕🛋️ 2.Not following through on things you set out to do /commitment issues/empty promises 3. Lack of /no exercise 4. Short temper/lack of patience 5. Feeling stuck 6. Lack of sleep 7. Back/shoulder/knee pain 8. Lack of enthusiasm and motivation to entertain your…

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How are you working on yourself ?

Answer in the comments

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First time mum- first time staying at home

Prior to my baby who’s only 11 weeks. I’ve always been working and been super independent. I went on maternity leave with no plans of going back to work. I love most aspects of being a stay at home mum but some days it’s really hard to get the hang of always being home with no routine outside of living from one feed...

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I can’t do this alone

My mom is leaving in the morning, like 9 hours from now. She lives all the way across the country. I can’t imagine being alone with this baby. What am I gonna do? I’ve been just following her lead, and now I’m going to have nothing. I have to restart work next week! I’m so scared. I’m crying because I wish she could...

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Is anyone else struggling? 😭

Hi guys. I'm sorry to rant but I'm literally in tears in bed currently just finding life so hard ATM, constantly tired, stress at work since returning, always arguing with my husband, the house is always a mess, I hardly have any friends for support. Days like this are just f**cking crap... Sorry for my French 🙈…

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