Community Posts, Tips & Support on Adoption, Fostering & Surrogacy

I can’t even begin to imagine what goes on through the mom’s minds that defend and back up their grown son’s actions especially if it effects the child. It feels almost inhumane that a mother can watch their child physically and emotionally abuse the mother of their grandchild and not say anything… But when I’ve ha...

Just need some help understanding this so I've got one child and I currently receive child element I've got another child on the way I think I can claim child element again would this be the same amount.

Does anyone feel like they can’t settle their newborn, but when they go to another family member they do it just fine? I’m starting to doubt myself and not sure if my baby is picking up on my stress 😔

I come from the UK. I’m British. But having travelled and experienced so many beautiful cultures from around the world, I realise that not only does white privilege exist, but so does an elitist mindset from the West! I’m so fed up of people in the West of the world criticising other mothers parenting methods, talk...

Has anyone used a baby doll/ toy baby to prepare their first born for the new arrival? Does it help and did you think it was worth while? My little one will be 18 months when his brother arrives and I want to do anything possible to help him acclimatise. But I also don’t want to make things worse by introducing a...

anyone’s else get annoyed at other people overbuying things for your child? like it’s at the point where i can’t never been able to enjoy buying things for my first baby cause we have too much ik i should be grateful but it honestly feels like i’ve had that opportunity taken away from me

I have a toddler boy and am pregnant with a baby girl. I’m nervous and excited. Can you all give your experiences with parenting a boy vs parenting a girl? I’d like to know if there are any differences. Also, my partner has all boys. Soooooo having a daughter is new to us both lol

How did you and the daddy parent your baby/toddler with completely opposite styles? It’s really putting our relationship to the brink and I don’t know what to do

Okay, I’m just curious how others have handled this. Is it normal to feel some imposter syndrome around the mom title. For background my little man is speech delayed and not saying mama yet. Adoption is not finalized yet. Petition filed awaiting court date. But even when other people (ie. nurse, therapist or passers...

Trump signed the official executive order getting rid of the department of education today. This is one example of why being a mother is inherently political. How can you be a mother and be ok with this?!

My son (almost 4 months) is half white (his dad), half Korean (me). I have heard that it’s important to teach a child about both parents’ cultures. I see the value in this but I have a dilemma. I was adopted as an infant and raised by white parents so I know very little about Korean culture. I guess it just feels ...

Flamingos lose their vibrant pink color while raising their young, but eventually regain it- starting to get my “pink” back, or at least looking for it. Finding little ways to feel like me again 🥰

I wondered if I might be able to ask this lovely community for some help! I am a Stepmum to a lovely 4-year-old girl, and it's been amazing and difficult simultaneously! I am about to complete my Master's degree in Psychology and need to complete my dissertation. Inspired by my own experiences, I have decided to ex...

What are your thoughts on ‘soft parenting’? Personally, the only children I’ve known/seen being soft parented have been right little sh*ts! Simply are left to get away with bad behaviour and don’t face any consequences. Now everyone in this day and age wonders why children and young adults have no respect.

Hello I’ve had an egg collection today and only 3 eggs were collected. I have low ovarian and reserve and am 39. I can’t stop crying. I feel like there is no hope of it working.

Anyone who’s applied for child benefits still waiting? I applied on the 4th of Feb, and haven’t started receiving it yet

How would another mother deal with a situation like this when your child father false to communicate with you about your 9 month old when the baby is with him ..

I am a little bit confused on where I stand with this as in the uk ( Scotland ) you need written consent from you child’s father to take them out the country! But my son’s dad is no contact but we haven’t went through court or anything like this. I have a message from him saying he has chosen to have no contact. ...

Yesterday I had an uncomfortable moment my father hasn't been in my life for years okay so I introduced him to my child and ny family and my aunt was enforcing my half brother to hold my baby when I told her I didn't feel comfortable she threw an attitude and has a child of her own yelled at me saying yes he will ge...

We are transferring our third and final frozen embryo this upcoming week! I am so excited and so hopeful 🤞🏼🌈✨ Any transfer buddies???