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Wake to feed

My LO is 8 weeks old and has started sleeping for at least 7/8 hours in one stretch the past few nights. Should I still be waking her up to feed every 3/4 hours like I used to do or is it alright to just let her sleep until she wakes up at this age? She has been gaining weight well and is over 10lb now.

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Breastfeeding

My baby is 5 days old and he took to the breast really well 3 days ago, he struggled at first. However now my milks come in, yesterday he managed absolute fine and was on the breast every 2 hours for half an hour however today he’s struggling. He will latch on but not suck? And he’s taking a while to latch on he jus...

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Suddenly has to be rocked to sleep

My LO has always gone into his cot awake and fallen asleep independently or with a little help of a little pat on the bum, he then has woken multiple times in a night. However recently the only way I can get him to sleep is to now cuddle and rock him to sleep. Has this happened to anyone else? Is this just a phase?

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Pump recommendations

Any recommendations for hands free pumps? Also is it best to buy a single or double and when is the best time to pump as I don’t want to create an oversupply. My new born is almost 4 weeks and I’ll start pumping next week

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To have a second or not?

This is specifically for those mamas that faced postpartum stuggles, such as depression and anxiety. And to those mamas that don’t have a lot of help. I have a wonderful son. He’s absolutely everything to me and I adore his smarts, his curiosity, his love for learning, his personality, his cute gestures and of c...

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Bottles

For those Mums that still give there little ones milk before bed, which bottles are you using? Thanks

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Routines

Hi! What's everyone's routine with their little ones? (6.5 months ) Im struggling to figure out when to give actual food around milk feeds and naps. Also how do you go about giving actual food if you're busy in the days or miss the window? Any help would be much appreciated to see how your day goes with your babies...

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What’s wrong?

I have an 18 month old whi I haven’t breastfed since she was 8 months bc I lost my milk. I’m currently 22 weeks pregnant and my right boob burns and hurts like it did if I waiting too long between pump sessions with my last baby. I don’t know what to do any I no longer have any pumps bc I wasn’t supposed to be able ...

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Marriage counseling

My husband and I just started. We’ve had three sessions so far, and I know that’s not much. So far I feel like it definitely helps us to communicate during sessions… but the time in between session have been unbearable. My husband will take small things I say during the session and mock me or use them against me. Th...

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Just being a baby or autistic😭

So every day on social media I see videos of ‘how I knew my child was autistic’ and it terrifies me my 6 month old ‘flaps’ his hands When laid on back kicks legs like he’s swimming Doesn’t yet respond to his name, when should he do this by? But he does turn around to look if people are talking if I’m drying my hai...

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Cybex base/maxi cosi- compatible with other car seats?

Hi we have a day to day pram and a travel pram. I’ve whittled it down to a couple of options for compatible car seats with both prams. My question is if we go for cybex or maxi cosi car seat and base, does that mean any future car seats would also need to be cybex or maxi cosi too? Otherwise we’d need to purchase ...

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Seat for baby

What do you have your babies in during the day while you do chores? My baby is not sitting up yet. I feel he's too old for the rocking chair but too young for the IKEA high chair. Thanks!

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Has anyone else’s relationship gone to absolute shit since having a baby?

I think we’re going to try couples therapy in the new year. I’m starting to think we actually might break up. It’s just so hard.

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Quit BFing or no? Missing my body and my life but feel guilty

Little one is 3 months old and I have recently debated quitting breastfeeding but I feel SOO guilty!!! He truly doesn't do the best with 100% formula bottles as he will spit up way more. He does well with BFing, latch is great, our biggest issue is that I just don't produce enough (20 oz but he eats 32 oz) so we sup...

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Boundaries/ tolerance towards others

TW mention of previous loss Hi all, bit of a sensitive one potentially but I was wondering if anyone can relate and/or give tips on how to deal with these feelings? For context, I've always been a bit of a stressy Type A person- always the one to make sure everything is in order and control- I grew up in poverty ...

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Rubbing of face

These past few days my 7 week old has started rubbing her face on me when I’m holding her. She keeps doing it and I don’t know why. Has anyone else seen there baby do this, over and over? Do you know what it might mean? She does it awake and sleeping, and on a full tummy. 🤷‍♀️

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Sudden night wakings

Hi all, Just wondering whether anyone can relate or help! My 5 month old has suddenly over the last 3 nights started waking up at 2:45/3am and will NOT settle for around an hour or 2. We have resulted in feeding her after the first hour of crying and then she’ll slowly settle however before this she stopped having...

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Terrible Two's🙃

My little girl all of a sudden is just being an absolute nightmare especially at dinner times. We can't take her to any restaurant's or any family members houses as it's so embarrassing with how much she has a meltdown🙃 We have a nearly 2 month old baby so not sure if this has affected how she behaves. But she will…

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PCOS?

Hi! I’m new to the group, about a year ago I was diagnosed with PCOS. I have an aunt who has it, so my risk of getting it is higher. I wanted to gather a second opinion but since I recently had a baby my PCP suggested waiting about 8 months postpartum before getting blood work done. I’m 6 months postpartum. But rece...

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Breastfeeding to combi feeding and stop feeding to sleep

I want to start officially combi feeding, my baby used to reject bottles but recently accepts them when I offer every now and again and I want to routinely start with every bed time, is it best to do a bottle in a different room to usual, bath, story etc. then bed? Normally I do bath first. I want to teach my baby...

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