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Can we be friends?

Im married and a mum of 3 kids, 14 year old son, 9 year old daughter and 4 year old son. My daughter has ADD and Autism. I live in England UK. I find it very hard make friends, either people make jokes about me, coz im short (im 5"1) or my daughter has special needs or maybe coz i have some trust issues... Just ne...

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Please help!: Anyone else feel their life is a mess?

I feel like everything is a mess at the moment. I can’t work due to health issues. I’m still living at home relying on my mum. I have an 8 week old baby. I don’t feel like a good mum. I want someone else to look after her because I don’t feel good enough. I have PPD and PPA. I cry all of the time. I’m constantly wor...

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When to give a second chance?

How do you decide when to forgive and give someone another opportunity? Have you regretted it in the past? Or did it work out? I am talking about friends, family, coworkers, etc.

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Hey mums 👋🏼

Would any mums be interested in joining a WhatsApp group if I were to make one? Simply for asking advice and a friendly little natter about our almost 2 year olds!!!☺️

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Moreton area

Hi all. My little girl is 6 days old. Looking to meet some mama friends moreton/wirral area. Coffee, cake… a team wide awake crying session? It would be nice to meet some people in a similar situation. First time mum, unexpected C section, loves dogs and sleep - have dogs, do not have sleep 🤣

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Vitamins

I’m currently 15 +6 and I keep waking up with headaches in the mornings and I’m thinking it’s to do with the lack of vitamins, does anyone know what is good to take in second trimester?

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Leaving?

Are you considering leaving this group due to the rage-baity political posts?

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Christmas present ideas for dad

Hi everyone, just looking for some inspiration for what I can get my partner for his first Christmas as a dad?! I’m usually really good at sentimental gifts but I’m stumped for ideas! Any help would be very much appreciated! X

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Sex

Am I the only one who does not enjoy sex whilst being pregnant? I am 18 weeks and I do not enjoy it at all, it always feel so uncomfortable and sore. I never had this issue before I fell pregnant and used to enjoy it 😂 is this normal?

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Friendships ending after having children

When i announced I was expecting my close friends who I’ve had since I was in year 7. Bridesmaids at my wedding! We’re all so excited to have the first baby in our group. They were really supportive and then as my first year of motherhood went on they dropped off a cliff. Didn’t even tell 2 of them I was expecting m...

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I sometimes don’t want to spend time with my daughter

I’m a SAHM and do a lot of solo parenting due to my husbands work. There are some days when I feel I actually don’t want to spend time with her. I love her to bits but I so want my own space. I feel awful writing this but does anyone ever feel the same way? I have my mum helping with her twice a week and I so look f...

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Still searching for my bestie

I get that I'm weird okay🤪. I understand that my personality is complex🧐. But what I can say for a fact is I friend hard 💯. What I won't do is entertain😡 Find something else to do with your boredom 💁‍♀️ You give me one word nothing to work with, and you're not trying to get to know me.. thank you, no thank…

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Friends ❤️

Anybody up and want to Snapchat? ❤️ sheristaib0516 ❤️

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Can someone relate?

I feel like after having my daughter, my capacity for life and purpose has diminished heavily. I do not feel like my daughter is holding me back! But since becoming a mom, my drive, discipline and purpose in life is gone besides what’s necessary for taking care of my daughter. I don’t like that. I feel lost. I’m rea...

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How did your workout routine change?

During pregnancy did you adjust your workout or just do the same things. I lift weights and do some yoga. I feel like I could continue right?

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Zero friends zero escape

I have no friends, no family I’m close to, nobody. I talk to no one but my bd who I don’t get along with. we hate each other, argue all day, and I’m regretting going so long without friends. I think what my bd says/does hurts me so bad, cause I have no friends to spend time with and enjoy life with. I have no life...

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Leaving

I’m leaving in 15 more hrs. I’m taking my kids and gtfo. I’m done. I’m done being labelled, called names, degraded, financially used, cheated on, being told I’m the controlling/gaslighting narcissistic one, of being told I don’t communicate. The FINAL straw was being hit (while being pregnant) in the side of my fuck...

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Question

Can you get pregnant on the birth control in the arm?

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Lost myself

Hi everyone. My son will be turning two next month and I’ve come to the realization that I’ve completely lost myself in motherhood. I am a SAHM and I don’t know who I am outside of being a mom. I have maybe 3 friends that I see every 3 months. I believe I have become depressed over this. I love being a mom but I fee...

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$$

anyone know any side hustles? for sahms 🥹🫶🏽 besides Doordash >> it’s hard with child in the car to be in and out 😫 TIA!!

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