Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Mental Health.

Struggling

I just feel extremely alone and overwhelmed. Unfortunately I don’t have a lot of mom friends in my life that can relate and I can talk to 😭

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How y’all feeling?

Haven’t had a bad pregnancy but I still feel alone like it’s just me in this or maybe it’s just me. I can be hurting and no one realizes it, I can be hungry and no one ask am I hungry, I can need a body rub and no one does that. Cleaning or taking care the kids specially when they sick and I gotta sit up all night w...

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FOMO

Anybody else been experiencing extreme FOMO and jealousy of your childless friends when they are going out all the time? I didn’t really do anything before I had my baby, but at least I could have if I wanted to. Especially with Halloween activities going on, I’m feeling super tied down, which obviously I am. I woul...

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Lost respect

Can you regain respect after every bridge was crossed? How?

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Feeling rubbish

Does anyone else get up some mornings and literally wish they could just get away from their children? I have a 2 year old and 3.5 year old. My skin crawls when I think about the fact that they’re just going to be climbing all over me and screaming and whining at me all day. I just want to run as far away as possibl...

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Has anyone else been feeling lonely throughout their pregnancy journey?

Even with a partner around, I still feel alone and I’m unsure how to navigate through these feelings .

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Love y’all on here and all but it seems like most people are so disconnected from their humanity

That coming on here is extremely depressing and almost always disappointing

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Is it normal to be so indecisive to having a second child?

Is it normal to want to have a second child then get scared and think you won’t be able to cope? I really want my LO to have a sibling and get sad when I see them playing alone, however when my LO acts up or is challenging I question how will I keep sane Why do I feel so hopeless 😢

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Just why?

Why do some women feel the need to comment the opposite of your concerns? For instance, on a post regarding weight gain in pregnancy - why would someone think “I’ll comment how little weight I gained despite this all other comments normalising and reassuring”. I just don’t get what the need is or why they would b...

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Lonely

I am so alone. My family just soft blocked me on tiktok lol because ignoring me isnt good enough. My baby daddys family all blocked me. My baby only has me. We are so alone. I know theres probably so many other people like this but it really is so isolating. Ive only ever helped everybody and I have no idea why I am...

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Is it me? Am I being sensitive/crabby

I feel like people are always asking things of me. all I do is do for immediate family but recently feel overwhelmed) annoyed that friends are asking favours because I'm not working. Such as walk dogs, drop off places when I've got the kids. Im not sure if Im seeing things differently as I'm sleep deprived or maybe ...

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No one

According to my husband all I do is nag and stomp around and am unhealthy and droopy. And just sleep and tired all the time. I just wanna cry. I wish I had people around me who cared. I feel so alone. And I have no where to go even if I were to leave. Fantastic.

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Would you rather being around someone who brags all the time or complains all the time? Explain why.

Got this from the Agape app and thought it interesting to see your response.

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Feeling like I cant anymore

What do you do the weeks you feel like you just can’t anymore? Theres times I’m thriving and other time I just cant cope. I know ill get through it but I’m in this feeling like i don’t want to just get through it. I never thought I would be doing it all alone. I don’t have anyone. I just need life to be more than ju...

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Best life advice

What's the best piece of life advice you've ever been given (and how did you interpret it)

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Hate myself

I know I shouldn’t say this but I hate my body / face / clothes everything All my old clothes don’t fit so I wear my maternity wear which is too big and makes me look fatter I never have time to go to the salon to get nails etc done I never have time to get my eye brows done I never have time to online shop ...

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Second baby feels..

Is anyone else finding it hard to adapt to the idea of adding another baby? Of course I’m excited to have another and give my daughter a sibling but I mean the dread of going through the postpartum period again and the first year is rough. Also just having to be with my toddler and a newborn all day alone sounds a...

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Mixed feelings about having another child

Im torn. My husband and I had to go through fertility to have my daughter. I'm 36 and had my daughter in February. I had a very hard pregnancy and didn't enjoy it at all. It was really difficult on my body and because of that and the cost of raising a child I feel like I'm one and done. Im torn because I remember l...

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Has anyone else started maternity leave and suddenly felt soooo lonely?

I started mat leave today and I don’t know what to do with myself. My husband is a teacher and works late every day and I’m my friends mostly work/don’t really get being pregnant. I suddenly feel so lonely and I don’t know why 😂 wondering if I’m the only one

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Regretting having kids

So I've been feeling like this for a long time and there is some context behind it,I've felt since I had my first baby that I have been doing everything on my own absolutely no support ny partner doesn't really help aNd his family hates me I'm all the way in oxford and my family is in Essex so I'm miles and miles aw...

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