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Mucus plug and labour 39+2

I know it could mean nothing but have lost some of my mucus plug this morning and same cramping so hoping it may be a good sign! Anyone lost there’s and labour successfully started soon after?

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C section experiences (good & bad pls)

I’ve been researching elective c section but I keep reading about a few side effects & just wondered if you experienced any of these. Painful gas & difficulties passing wind / moving bowels Excessive itching of scar Vomiting during surgery and extreme shaking. Someone at work told me the shaking was so bad she c...

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Injections

My baby was so poorly with his first injections. He is due his second today. Did anybody have a better experience with the second and their baby not be as poorly? Xx

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Hospital dress for delivery

Do we have to wear some uniform from the hospital or get our own dress?

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Waxing after episiotomy?

Hi all, I'm just over 6wks pp and I usually have a Hollywood wax. But I'm wondering if I should avoid this. Even though my scar is healed as I think waxing would irritate it. Can I shave or use hair removal cream? Also what are people's experiences having sex for the first time after episiotomy and forceps deliver...

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What’s going on?

Throughout the day sporadically and through the evening the last 3 days have been the best I can describe as tightening..? My entire stomach hardens, I feel his head pressing down and the pressure on my cervix, it feels like I suddenly have to poop, occasionally it radiates around to my back, once or twice it’s take...

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C section recovery

How does one manage the pain from laying down in bed to getting up? That is my worst point I think, it absolutely kills me (5 days into post c section)

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Hospital walk through

Are you planning on doing a hospital walk through to get acquainted with the facility before you go into labor? Did you do it with a previous pregnancy? Do you recommend it? During the tour, what questions should be asked? TIA!

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40w + Membrane Sweep

I’m 40 weeks today and was 1.5cm dilated and 50% effaced, asked my OB to do a membrane sweep at my check up and she said she got me to 2cm and to expect cramping, brown or red spotting and some back ache. My belly has been cramping non stop since I got home at 1pm, kind of like one big constant cramp and Braxton Hi...

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Doctor all clear after c section

Hello, has anyone ended up having a 6 week appointment with their doctor to get the all clear following their c section? I see a lot of things saying that we can do things again once we get okay from doctor (e.g some postnatal exercise classes, driving etc) but my doctor doesn't seem to want to do any check up. Is ...

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Burning sensation in one side of c section

Ouch, is this normal? Feels like a tight, burning sensation in one side

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Waters breaking?

With our due dates coming up so fast now, as a ftm, I need to know how I will know my water has broken? So many people have said different things. Is it just a case that you know? Or will you be left guessing that you have wet yourself?

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Hospital Bags! What to pack?

Hello! I’m 26wks pregnant with my first Bebe and want to make sure that I can prepare as much as possible in advance. I started planning my hospital bag but there is so much info on what to include etc. I was wondering if anyone packed things they didn’t really use or missed anything they would’ve liked to have, etc...

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Getting induced tomorrow (39 weeks) 2nd baby💙 advice please

The midwife said due to this being my second baby they might induce me in a different way this time such a pop my waters. Has anyone experienced this with second baby and if so how long did you labour for?😣

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No judgement please just a question

I know everyone has their own opinions on this topic so please no judgement. I am having a boy this time around and originally decided to circumcise my son. I did a lot of research and talking it over with my partner and we decided that’s what was best. Today I had an appointment with one of the midwives at my pract...

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Same day discharge from L&D after giving birth?

Is this possible? I plan on asking but wondering if anyone has been able to. Located in Texas btw

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Dilapan

Anyone been induced with dilapan?

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38 week induction 😬

My doctor just recommended inducing at 38 weeks. It’s so hard wrapping my brain around going to the hospital to start the process on Sunday night! I feel like there is so much to do.

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TTC

We're trying for baby 2 (baby 1 was an unexpected) and this is now our third month of trying. I know this is a random Q but I've never had to "try" before so want to make sure I'm maximising our chances. After intercourse, I'm finding that some sperm/liquid is leaking between my thighs after pulling out and then i g...

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Maternity pads

What pads is everyone using after they gave birth. I used the lillets one with wings last time but I still leaked through so much 😩

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