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Postpartum anxiety

My baby is almost 2 weeks and I have had really bad anxiety since his was born. When he cries Iā€™m being sick and when heā€™s quiet Iā€™m thinking about what could go wrong. Is this normal at this stage or should I speak to my GP?

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First sex pp

This might be a bit tmi but i need to tell someone because I am in shock šŸ˜‚ I have just had sex for the first time 7 weeks PP and let me tell you that was the best sex ever. I was so weary of my new body and my stretch marks and saggier boobs but honestly I have never felt passion like it. Hes made me feel so lovedā€¦

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Post partum hair loss

I'm balding šŸ˜­ What do I do?!

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Is it postpartum depression or is my life crazy?

I have 3 daughters ages 7,6,4 and I just had my son 2 weeks ago. My 6 yr old has been having behavior issues in school consistently since 1st grade started. She yells and screams at her teachers she even hits them. She elops from the classroom and her favorite thing to say is "everyone hates me, nobody likes me" idk...

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Friend breakup

Iā€™ve never really had close friends that stuck all my life. I finally made a friend that was very similar to me and had a kid close in age to mine back in September 2023. We spent a lot of time together and texted a decent amount. We helped each other being a shoulder to cry on when needed it felt like. We havenā€™t d...

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Prenatal depression

Second trimester with twins, and I have been crying a lot. The holidays are extremely tough for me this year. Can anyone else relate?

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Epidural

My friend just had her baby a week ago and was kind enough to share her birth story with me! šŸ«¶šŸ¼ She shared upon her arrival to the hospital she received morphine and then another pain med that she couldnā€™t remember but made her nauseous. (Started with an S?) She stated she received the epidural but could stillā€¦

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I am panicking to travel with my 17-month LO...

On Saturday, I will be travelling with my LO and husband abroad. The flights will be 4 hours layover for 3 hours before the final destination 4 hours. Now my LO is super active , she won't keep still in one place. I find she gets bored quickly. I'm absolutely beginning to get anxious because even though my husband ...

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Is anyone else an emotional mess?

I actually cannot stop crying. I never used to be emotional at all but 4 PP and oh my godā€¦I absolutely cried my eyes out at Iā€™m a celeb when Barry did the spinning challenge incase he didnā€™t win any stars (I am actually welling up just thinking about this now šŸ˜‚) and donā€™t even get me started on how fast they growā€¦

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Advice

Hey Iā€™m a first time mum my pregnancy wasnā€™t the best I did it alone and have been alone since I only have 1 friends and she doesnā€™t have a baby and feel like she doesnā€™t understand me at all. I feel so alone all the time I feel depressed all the time I feel like Iā€™m doing a shit job of being a mum. I still havenā€™...

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Vagina different since birth

I had a second degree tear through my perineum but while Iā€™ve been stitched ā€˜back togetherā€™ it just doesnā€™t look the same down there. My perineum looks like itā€™s reduced in length by about half, and I can see so much more of the tissue beneath my vagina opening than I did before. Iā€™m just gutted. Is there anyone els...

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PP nobody judge!

I saw this post on Facebook and I thought itā€™s a really good idea. I feel like this group is a safe space so if you want too, add to the comments something that been playing on your mind or you are struggling with that has been bothering you and want to get off your chest! Nobody is going to judge! Iā€™ll go firs...

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Did anyone else find sex got better after baby?

I did have a csection so youā€™d think nothing changed but something did!! Iā€™m like a waterfall now it feels amazing. There must be a science behind it I canā€™t be the only one

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Finding it hard with the firstborn

Is anyone struggling with their firstborn? I know that sounds silly but since having my second at the end of oct, my patience is running low sometimes with my firstborn. She is 3 and wanting to help lots but also doing challenging things to gain my attention, for the most part she is a really good girl and im v luc...

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Seasonal depression

Does anyone else feel down around this time of year? It feels multiplied now that Iā€™m expecting again. Everything is overwhelming right now and life feels stagnant. Iā€™ve lost my sense of self and it feels impossible to enjoy the ā€œmost wonderful time of the year.ā€ I wanna get out and do things or meet with moms on he...

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Does anyone else have a baby who cannot be put down? Iā€™m so depressed. I canā€™t do anything. My house is a mess. I spend every second I get when her dad is watching her to try and clean or do laundry or cook something.

She doesnā€™t even sleep unless with me so I canā€™t even do it after she goes to bed or naps. Itā€™s just me all the time. ā˜¹ļø she often screams in the carrier unless sleeping and then I canā€™t do much so baby wearing isnā€™t really an option

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What do you thinkā€¦?

I feel like shit, Iā€™m anxious.. Iā€™m so tired of feeling this way.. I hate being alone at night, I hate going to bed alone.. I constantly worry about my childā€™s well being, I sometimes worry about being alone with him because I feel so burnt out it sometimes feels like Iā€™m just going through the motions I feel like I...

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Extra hairy šŸ« 

Is anyone else suddenly sprouting extra hair in random places? My belly is looking particularly fluffy these days. And Iā€™ve plucked a few dark hairs from my neck which were never there before! Pregnancy is so fun šŸ˜‚

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My libido has completely gone

I'm really worried, I have completely lost my libido after the birth. I had a c section. I have tried to explore by myself but feel nothing, no desire and no interest to orgasm at all. It's like I'm disconnected from my sexual self. I'm 11 weeks pp. Will I ever have sex/enjoy again? Is this normal?

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Sex postpartum

What are the chances of me being pregnant again after having unprotected sex 6 weeks post partum. Had my period a week before this (5 weeks post partum)

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