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FTM and SAHM

So it’s my first baby and I’m not going back to work - I’m 26 and I feel judgment from my family and friends that I’m not returning to work. Did anyone else feel judged when becoming a SAHM?

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TMi warning but i need some advice

so me and my husband have 2 children and for about 9 months he didn’t want to have sex at all so i self pleasured (not with toys because i didn’t want him to find them and throw a fit) for about 6 months now he’s still not really wanting to do it but when he does it’s the same position no foreplay and he seems to ta...

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SOS

So the father of my little girl would really stress me out during my pregnancy, he would purposely upset me to the point where I stopped speaking to him for 3 months during my pregnancy. I couldn’t stand him, I didn’t want to be around him. My daughter is now 3 months & seems to really dislike her dad, anytime he go...

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Baked pork chops, mashed potatoes, and some steamed carrots!

The pork chops are seasoned with brown sugar, paprika, thyme, garlic, salt, pepper and a tiny bit of cayenne pepper. Carrots with garlic salt and pepper. Baked the pork chops at 425 for 10 minutes because they were a little thin so didn't want to over cook them. They seemed fine!

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What in the actual F?

Why do women on here feel the need to put others down? Or run their mouth about something that has no bearing on them!!!! I answered a question - my own personal answer. Someone felt the need to comment ugly words on my answer. Why? My husband wants me to do a YouTube channel or something about our family, but I do ...

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What vitamins is your toddler on?

Hi All, What other vitamins do you give your LO?? My LO just has the daily NHS Healthy Start vitamin drops (contains - Water, Glycerol, Vitamin C, Emulsifier, Polysorbate 80, Vitamin A, Vitamin D and Propylene glycol). But with this cold weather flu season I want to top them up but I always get worried of giving...

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Letrozole Day 5 !

I’m on day 5 of taking Letrozole and cd 6 and my bleeding hasn’t stopped . Have my mid cycle scan soon on cd 12 . Extremely nervous cause my bleeding still hasn’t stopped . I usually have really long and irregular cycles . Any help or advice is appreciated. TIA

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So annoyed at my boyfriend’s Christmas gift choice

Our budget this year is 300 each and he wants me to spend ALL of it on a 3D printer. That I know he’s not going to use enough to make up for the price because he won’t have time AND he’ll loose interest. He gets obsessed with these hobbies for like three months and then drops them. He literally was just spending al...

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I know communication is super important in relationships in all aspects. But how do you get passed feeling resentful towards them since if you’ve never asked/communicated they would have never done it?

Stuck between -not wanting to communicate or ask because it doesn’t feel genuine anymore -feeling grateful that they’re listening and making an effort😭😭😭

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Financial pressure

Hello everyone I am a single mum to an nearly 1 year old I was unfortunately made redundant at the start of my maternity leave - it has since ended I am struggling to find a job and I will also have to find childcare but I am struggling financially I don't know what to do I ended up going to the food rescue...

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Momma friends?

I’m 23 have a 3 year old son and nearly 5 month old daughter🥰 Wondering if anyone wants to be friends either over phone or meet up! I have snap/insta/whatsapp

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I just been so depressed

I just had a baby and I am just tired . I don’t wanna work I don’t wanna get dress I don’t wanna go outside I just want to sit in my bed and watch tv , I’m good with taking care of the baby but I hate getting dress bc nothing fits so we just stay home !

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Amount spent on Christmas presents

Can I ask how much people spend on Christmas presents for children aged 3. I've bought some presents already, doesn't look much, feel I need to buy more but don't want to be spending way over the top.

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Christmas

Just want some honest opinion. BD always picks and chooses when he wants to see DD. At Christmas she will be with me but I’ve offered him Boxing Day. He wants to have her before and open presents before Christmas. She’s only 3 & this is the first year she understands the magic of Christmas & Santa coming Christmas E...

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Hey mamas

Hey guys I haven’t posted in a second and wanted to check up on everyone!!! I’m. 24+4 and little man is kicking away!! This is such an amazing feeling. I’m so used to to it now I can’t even imagine when he’s not in there anymore… is it normal to feel overly sad about that

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Advice needed on SDI/PDL/PFL

Hi I've finished post partum SDI, baby is 9w old. I think I'm on PFL right now, but my letter from the EDD said 'your PFL and SDI run concurrently because your PFL is related to a new baby'. Can someone help me here? I'm confused and my brain simply isn't working for me right now. I thought I have 6w PP SDI paymen...

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Online Workout Groups

Is anyone a part of any online workout groups? I need to get myself healthy and lose 50lbs of fat and gain muscle back. Currently doing Beachbody workouts and looking for groups to motivate, encourage, inspire, and keep each other accountable!

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Personal trainer

I'm looking for input for a personal trainer. I gave birth 16 months ago, and I been struggling badly with my weight mainly my mom pouch. I join the gym but I haven't seen any difference, I tried asking the gym for a personal trainer but they charge an arm and a leg. I can't go to the gym by myself, I feel like I d...

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Friends

I have a Nintendo Switch I need some mom friends

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Bd called the police while at work

My bd who lives with us called to police to come check home while at work because I refuse to pick his calls since yesterday due to big fight we had two days ago. Baby was constipated yesterday and he said to be too worried. I am questioning my sanity now, should he has called the police just because I don’t pick hi...

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