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Dummies

How many dummies should I have for a newborn? I think about 5-6 but my partner seems to think we only need 1 šŸ¤Æ!

Incognito
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Induction

My question is can I request to be induced at around 37 weeks ? I am honestly struggling so much right now I can barely walk (I have PGP that is getting worse and worse), I can't physically do anything without being in so much pain it cripples me for days after, am hardly sleeping due to the pain am so fed up and it...

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Stressed

So I tend to be a big planner. I know pregnancy has a lot of unknowns...BUT I have had a pretty smooth pregnancy and I feel like no one is addressing that delivery is 2 weeks away... Details - Modi twins Currently 33 weeks 5 days Supposed to be induced at 36 weeks. I asked today at my appointment when we schedule i...

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Discharge or mucus plug?

Iā€™m 32 weeks and Iā€™ve had to wear a pad recently for the amount of discharge, this is my 3rd baby so more than used to this. However today there was an excessive amount which was stringy/jelly like texture, slightly tinged yellow too, but no smell.. surely this couldnā€™t be my mucus plug already?

Incognito
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C-section pain

Hi all, has anyone with endometriosis experienced pain on their c-section? If so, how have you coped and did you seek help?

K
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Question re scheduling of elective csection

Hi there. I am 35 weeks and today saw a consultant who approved my request for a csection (purely a request, not on medical grounds)- we signed the paperwork and did my bloods/MRSA swabs. I was told that I would receive a date for my section in due course. This afternoon I checked my pregnancy notes app and have s...

Incognito
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I may have had my first contraction????

It felt like a minute long extremely painful need to poop, which I wouldā€™ve made a string of bizarre noises about if I hadnā€™t been sat in the WIC office. I think my October 5th baby might end up being a September baby šŸ‘€

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Donā€™t be like me

Who else has nothing ready yet ? I havenā€™t done hospital bag, washed baby clothes and nothing at 37 weeks šŸ˜­ I need to get it all situated. Some people say not to build their bassinet or nothing until baby is here.

K
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C section with Big baby

Hi Iā€™m booked to have a C section with my second. With my first I was induced early due to his size, if my second is the same will they pull the date of my c section forward or leave it at the week before my due date?

Incognito
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What do babies get dressed in straight after a c section??

Iā€™m probably over thinking, my partner just keeps saying donā€™t worry about it now, but Iā€™m trying my best to be organised for a c section on the 4th Oct and I got to thinking, what will he/she actually wear? So do I take in a little vest & sleep suit or at least take in a blanket, into surgery or do they provide jus...

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First sweep

40+2 today and had my first sweep. Midwife said Iā€™m 2cm dilated, cervix is soft and very low. Anyone been in a similar position and the sweep been successful at starting labour? This is my first pregnancy and wanted to know others experiences.

Incognito
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Bowel changes post c section

Hey gals sorry TMI but Iā€™m 3 weeks PP after an elective C section - Iā€™ve had a dodgy stomach for over 2 weeks now. Is this something to be expected post c section? I donā€™t remember these issues after my first!

M
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1st of October

Just been confirmed I will be having a C-section on the 1st of October and Iā€™m so excited. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated ā¤ļø

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Leaking waters

Over the past two days Iā€™ve noticed some ā€˜wetā€™ patches in my underwear. At first I put it down to being a little hot and sweaty but now Iā€™m worrying itā€™s my water slowly breaking? I donā€™t want to travel up to triage and waste their time. Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this or if itā€™s best to just go ...

Incognito
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Leaking? TMI WARNING

Has anyone had this? Iā€™m leaking down below but I know itā€™s not wee. Iā€™m not sweating. Itā€™s not discharge as itā€™s like water. I highly doubt my water has broke as I donā€™t think itā€™s enough water and Iā€™m only 23 weeks. But yet every time I go to the toilet thereā€™s a little bit more of a wet patch down there. I donā€™t ...

Incognito
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C-section experience LRI

Hi all, Iā€™m booked in for a c section next week, whatā€™s everyoneā€™s experience at the LRI? Iā€™ve had a normal delivery there but worried about a c-section? Any advice I need to know about?

Incognito
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VBAC or Elective section?

Hi all, I had my consultant appt yesterday and 20 week scan. I was 100% sure they were going to say that I would have to have a section due to my previous full dilation section in 2021 and uterine surgery in February but they said VBAC is an option at the moment. My placenta is anterior but itā€™s clear of my scar...

E
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A lot of pressure

Is it a sign of labor ?

Incognito
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Does birth culture need to change?

I have my own opinions on this topic and am super interested in discussing with and hearing from other people!

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Scar

I had my second child arrive by emergency c section on the 16th September and my first was delivered naturally, Iā€™m really struggling with my scar, I know itā€™s only been a week but I hate it, I feel awful and so self conscious, I feel so ugly šŸ˜” I know itā€™s his my beautiful baby was brought into the world and Iā€¦

Incognito
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