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Labour??

Been getting pink stained mucus all night/ morning do you think this could be labour?? Period like cramps on and off aswell!

Incognito
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C section

I have my c section tomorrow and I am so scared and nervous, hoping I will feel more at ease after my pre op today

Incognito
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Symptoms before loosing your mucus plug??

I’m currently 37 + 4 weeks pregnant and all night and this morning i have had the most intense cramping low down. Just wanted to know if anyone had any symptoms like this before there mucus plug went. The cramping kinda feels like the start of a period.

E
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Elective c section this week… nervous

Things I’m nervous about: Spinal Feeling/being sick Catheter coming out Anyone wanna share positive light on these things?😆😅 x

Incognito
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Lied to?

I originally did not want pitocin and had it in my birth plan that it was not to be given to me for my scheduled c section. When the day came, I was told I had no choice and that everybody HAD to be given pitocin. Im told by a lot of people that I was lied to and had every right to refuse the pitocin. What is the...

S
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Just learned about this!

So for anyone that is pregnant and has a bmi over 40, the UCSD birthing center will not deliver your baby. Also if you have complications and prior Csections they won’t deliver either. I never knew about this! I have GD (gestational diabetes) and take insulin and have had a csection before and a lot of ppl told me I...

L
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Water breaking 36 weeks

Leaking fluid I noticed when I stood up I leaked a little fluid in my panties idk if it’s amniotic fluid

K
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preemie questiom

my baby was born at 36 weeks would she have an adjusted age ? and how do i track milestones for a preemie?

S
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Contractions

How far apart should contractions be to call triage? Second baby

Incognito
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C-section pros and cons?

Hi lovely moms and mom to be, Please can you tell me the pros and cons of C-section based on your personal experience? I have a few people telling me that it's not that great in long term for body and will give life long back pain etc..

A
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Labour near?

I’m 40+1 today and have had on and off period cramping for about 1.5 weeks. The last two days they’ve been accompanied by twinges in my vagina, mild headaches and my back feeling weak. I also think I’m getting a lot of tightenings but baby is so active and loves pushing his bum out so it’s really hard to tell! Has...

Incognito
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C-section pain

I had an C-section almost 3 weeks ago but my lower stomach (the wobbly mum-tum bit) is so painful. It hurts to touch it/ run my hand over my belly. When I walk or move, it obviously wobbles and this causes discomfort. I’ve got my high waisted underwear on but have to wear extra over the top to prevent the wobble. F...

Incognito
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Waters breaking…

I’ve never experienced spontaneous labour so I’m curious. For those of you who have had their waters break before contractions started, how did it happen? Currently this is a bit of a fear of mine. Are they going to randomly go in line at the supermarket? Or could they just go at night while I’m sleeping?…

Incognito
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Catheter

Do you have to have a catheter after a c section or can you refuse as I am anxious about having one and the pain of them taking it out?

Incognito
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Sterilising dummies for hospital

How do I do this, we have our c section later this week and I intend of taking a dummy x

Incognito
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Sex after a c-section

Does sex feel the same after a C section? I haven’t had sex since conceiving and my baby turns one this month but the thought of sex scares me for some reason

Incognito
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Elective c-section

I am due to see a consultant on Tuesday regarding an elective c-section, however, I have been told by a friend that she's been told she can only have one after 40 weeks because they have a back log. I suffer quite badly with my mental health, I have Generalised Anxiety Disorder which is triggered by uncertainty, an...

Incognito
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Cervical ectropion

Has anyone ever had this or got this? Went for my smear and she told me I have this..been bleeding when straining/bowel movements and was freaking out & she thinks this may be the cause? X

Incognito
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Planned c section mamas

I’m planning on going for an elective section, I am anxious and nervous. What are your experiences/ story so I can get an idea what to expect. 🥺

K
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Leaving the house

Tips on leaving the house for the first time with a newborn I’m especially anxious any tips?

M
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