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Should we have another baby?

Our son is 2yrs 4months old and I’ve been thinking about having another baby at some point. This hasn’t been the plan and we have found the experience have pushed us to our limits and sometimes beyond. Plus I had a traumatic delivery which took months to recover from emotionally and physically. My partner says he ...

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I feel like I’m the only mother who actually enjoys a break from my baby. Be honest, does this make me a bad parent?

Ever since my little girl was born my parents or my partners parents have had her once a week. A midweek break to my parents for me, andSundays with my partners parents. I don’t particularly miss her in this time and She’ll be gone for up to 8 hours sometimes. We moved into our house 2 days before my little girl wa...

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Baby hates daddy?!

So my son is 3 months old and I swear it feels like 9/10 when my husband/the father holds his son he will start to scream and cry and carry on as if he is being hurt. My husband/the father has NEVER hurt his son in his short life (I’ve had way more accidental boo boos given to him). I need help! I know it’s natural ...

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Advice? Am I wrong for being upset? My mom doesn’t want to babysit 1 of my children, but she will watch the other 2?!

I don’t want to tell her not to babysit at all, as the only other option is my MIL who doesn’t respect me or my wishes with my children. My husband works 2 jobs, so he’s gone 7 days a week, except for 2 hours in the morning. Our son has severe separation anxiety at 4 years old - he will kick & scream & hit & try t...

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LO alwayssss hungry

Hey guys, so I know toddlers are always hungry 🤣 however my LO wakes up at 6am and is crying for food straight away…I’m wondering what I should be giving him this early? As if I give him his breakfast this early I think he’ll then be hungry at breakfast time again if that makes sense🤣 …he has his 3 meals & 2…

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Why are playgroup mums so judgemental and rude

Yesterday I took both my kids to a play group we always go to and my son was having a bit of a meltdown not a bad one he’s got autism so he does struggle with his emotions anyways a women sitting there looks at us and turns to another women and said “ bet he’s naughty at home glad he’s not my child” I was fuming…

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Am I dirty or doing it wrong?

Okay so my pans for my oven, 3 or so out of the maybe 6 we have get rusty after being dried off and even oiled. They’re a few years old but I use a metal scrubby for a while and make sure it’s dry otherwise it’s horrible.

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Weaning

Hi all, Really struggling here. We as a family have eaten quick easy meals for years, using made up jar sauces for Bolognais, curries etc. I'm aware I can't do this if I want our 6 month old to eat what we're having. So now it's the stress of having to now cook everything from fresh my self when time is limited an...

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Baby congested

My 2.5 month old baby is quite congested but don’t know what to give her as basically everything say 3 months and over.

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8 months old - meals and pincer grasp

How many meals should i be offering at 8 months? (I know formula is the main source of nutrition, he gets that offered before real any food) Right now he eats just dinner and eats whatever we eat (just BLW version) also im noticing him trying to grab things with his pincer grasp, can i make food smaller now or wait ...

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Starting real food

Has anyone started giving their baby any kind of real food yet? My baby will be 4 months on the 20th of this month and I’ve heard mixed things. I’ve heard not to give your baby real food until 6 months and then I’ve heard you can give your baby cooked pears, apples, carrots, things like that from 3 months. I’m so e...

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Discouraged

I have a 6 month and 18 month old. When my husband is home it feels like I almost got this but when he’s back at work the days feel long and helpless. My toddler barely ate today and my baby cries every time I’m out of her sight. Im just not getting better at this. Some women are doing great and then there’s me ques...

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ever felt like a stranger in ur own home?

so my boyfriend and i just moved into our new space about 2 weeks ago. Im currently 28 weeks pregnant and i found us a nice apartment to move into before we welcome our second child. I paid for the Uhaul truck, I paid the security deposit, the move in fee, I paid for the lights and wifi to be on. And i paid for all ...

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Becoming a toddler

So what to do if your toddler thinks she can tell you no now 😒😂

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Advice?

My baby is 1 in a week. He’s still super attached, like I can’t sit him down without having a meltdown. Yes he’ll grow out of it and yes I know he won’t be a baby forever. But he gets to heavy he has been super super clingy since he got sick like 2 months ago. And yes I have people to help me they have been helping ...

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Travelling

Too late to travel? Just wanna do a short haul to Spain at 35/36 weeks for a few days…

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Leaving my baby for two/three weeks

So I want to start with I have a good relationship with my in-laws for the most part. Thing is, they’ve been talking about taking my 18 month old son back home with them to San Francisco before I go into labor.. we live in southern Orange County. Nothing has been said to me directly either. They just talked to my hu...

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Boy Potty Training

This is super embarrassing but my almost 4 year old refuses to potty train so I need your best potty training hacks/tips so this boy can attend school in the fall lol please and thank you!

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Advice

I finally told my partner I want to spend time with him more like old times, We used to watch TV, play board games, did tv trivia, but now all he do is go to work, go to the gym & play video games he says I always find something to complain about & we are two different people I get that, but if I'm down stairs wa...

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Entertaining

Hi my baby is 8 months old I have absolutely love being a mum but am starting to struggle to entertain her all day long I count down the hours till ny partners homr cause I feel so lonely and burnt out from night feeds then entertaining well trying to all day long she does not nap in day at all, when my partner does...

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